September 30, 2006
It's Acute Maxillary Sinusitis
Yay! I finally know what I have!
Ok, so I didn't
actually go to the doctor. I asked
Dr. Google.
I just wanted some validation that tooth pain
COULD be related to sinus problems, because I get relief from decongestants and steam treatments, the same as if I had normal sinus congestion. Except my freaking teeth hurt
SOOOOOO FUCKING BAD that I have been begging Hubby to shoot me in the face (NOW!!!!)
Not to mention that my left cheek is swollen and if you touch it, I WILL SHOOT YOU.
A week ago I had many of these symptoms, but then, POOF! they were gone. For a whole blessed week.
Tonight the motherfucker WOKE ME UP at 2 am! But I know why. The winds changed, and we are being inundated with smoke from the Day fire again.
Anyway, I started looking to see if tooth pain was ever associated with sinus problems, and
every symptom listed is something I have:
nasal congestion? Check.
nasty nasal goo (discharge)? Check.
Swollen, painful cheek? Check.
Tooth pain not identifiable to one specific tooth? Check.
More painful when lying down or bending? DEFINITELY
Better after steam, heat applied to face, and/or decongestants? Check.
I had no idea that this was even possible, let alone
common. Go figure.
And now it's 4:30 AM and I need some sleep.... maybe I can, the decongestant seems to be working ok.
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Affects your ears too. Like a constant drumming pain. We can commiserate together. LOL.
Posted by: Tink at September 30, 2006 07:36 AM (11q5z)
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Damn...that sucks. I'm sorry!
Posted by: Sissy at September 30, 2006 01:21 PM (e+8WB)
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Get thee to a doctor!! GRRRR. You have some tra-vel coming up. You need to get rid of that infection!
The word tra-vel and com got banned by munu. Go figure.
Posted by: Bou at September 30, 2006 06:43 PM (iHxT3)
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Oh holy crap!! Take care of yourself and I hope that you are feeling 100% better really soon!!
Posted by: Richmond at September 30, 2006 08:28 PM (e8QFP)
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My daughter suffers from the exact same problem although it cost an arm and a fortune after several doctor visits! High levels of grass pollen trigger hers. I hope you get to feeling better soon. Next time IÂ’ll tell her to try Dr. Google firstÂ…
Posted by: Edd at October 01, 2006 04:53 AM (lJqj8)
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I advise a doctors visit AND x rays.....unfortunately I had the same thing 20 years ago and went for root canals, sinus surgery .... then they discovered a tumor and it, unfortunately, turned out to be malignant...went up into my eye area on right side....after massive surgery and radiation I survived ... but I still don't understand why dentists think its all about teeth and not about a tumor !!!!!!!
Good luck....
Posted by: Bob Russell at October 02, 2006 02:01 PM (mkuWv)
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About 15 years ago I was having monthly bouts with humongous incapacitating sinus and ear infections. During a rare break in my antibiotic of the month regimen I had four impacted wisdom teeth removed at once. Much to my surprise....no more sinusitus until about three years ago when it cropped up again. Had my tonsils and adenoids removed and that resolved the trouble,
Posted by: Paul at October 03, 2006 06:03 PM (XargM)
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well, i'm glad to know i'm not the only person who self-diagnoses. i'm glad you're feeling better though.
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September 29, 2006
Ever wonder who the President talks to?
Jim of Parkway Rest Stop and his crack staff have uncovered a
transcript!
Drink warning for the end!
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Happy Birthday!
To Sadie, daughter of my bloggyparents, Jay and Deb!
The original blog baby
turns TWO today!
Time sure flies. I hope she enjoys the present which should arrive Monday or Tuesday (damn slow Amazon.com.....)
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September 28, 2006
In the Pink!
Congratulations are in order for fellow blogger and Cotillionette Holly Aho and her family!
It's a girl!
Vivianne Allison AhoBorn: 9-27-06 7:25pm
Weight: 7 lbs. 12 oz.
Height: 20"
Mom and baby are both well and home from the hospital. Little Vivianne is the only girl in the family, having FOUR big brothers! Click over to
the proud Mama's site for pictures!
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September 27, 2006
Who says Project Runway isn't popular.....
Holy Cow! Within a minute of the end of this week's episode, this is what I get! We'll see what happens after the west coast airing!
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September 26, 2006
More than a comedian
As many of you probably know, Bill Cosby has an Ed.D. That's Education Doctor, BTW.
Here's what
he has to say about education: "
Why can't students practice algebra for hours like teams practice sports?"
Further:
...[W]hen freshman Kimya Thompson shouted that the subject was boring, Cosby, from Shelburne, brought her on stage.
He told her that if she and her peers didn't sharpen their academic skills, they'd be earning minimum wage.
Cosby told the 450 students that they couldn't go to jail for getting straight As, but they could get shot for selling drugs.
You tell 'em Bill!
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Posted by: Greta at September 27, 2006 04:22 AM (Cbtbf)
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"Algebra is boring"
Sure, but so is stocking the shelves at the Wal-Mart for the rest of your life for minimum wage. In fact, I would argue that of those two, algebra is less boring.
I think that's a fundamental problem with kids (and adults) in America today, though: they're not willing to live through short-term "boring" or "hard" in order to get to long-term "rewarding." It's the culture of instant gratification, and it's not just the "minority" students who suffer from it.
Posted by: ricki at September 27, 2006 07:20 AM (VRP1v)
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BTW that is an EARNED EdD.
AN INTEGRATION OF THE VISUAL MEDIA VIA 'FAT ALBERT AND THE COSBY KIDS' INTO THE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL CURRICULUM AS A TEACHING AID AND VEHICLE TO ACHIEVE INCREASED LEARNING..
COSBY, WILLIAM HENRY, JR., EducatD.
UNIVERSITY OF MASSACHUSETTS AMHERST, 1976. 267 pp.
Posted by: The Thomas at September 27, 2006 03:13 PM (roGJq)
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yep, Fat Albert: more than just fun.
He also has several honorary doctorates. Including one from USC, which I was present for.
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Some serious smackdown
...going on over at
Babalu.
First, check out George's
post on Clinton's interview with Chris Wallace. Then read the
comments!
Frankly, you should know you've lost the argument when you resort to saying things like "
Sure wish Bush would have sex with some intern..."
The Babalu smackdown
continues courtesy of Condi Rice.
Be sure to check it all out!
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Full circle
Over the last several years professional teams and colleges alike have been tripping over themselves in a rush to sell the "naming rights" of their home stadiums and arenas to corporate partners for a boatload of cash. Because of this a number of historic stadium names have been lost. Some examples: Candlestick Park, long home of the Giants and 49ers is now Monster Park, it's 3rd or 4th name; and New Jersey's Brendan Byrne Arena, long home of the NHL's Devils, is now the Continental Airlines Arena.
Colleges too are jumping on the bandwagon. Syracuse plays in the Carrier Dome (which ironically enough has no air conditioning!), and the University of Missouri briefly named its on-campus arena
Paige Arena, after Elizabeth Paige Laurie, a Wal-Mart heiress, at least until her roommate at USC (that's right, she was not a U of M student, either!) revealed that Miss Laurie had engaged in academic dishonesty and subsequently left the university.
But the trend has now come full circle. Officials in Glendale, AZ
announced today that the naming rights to the new Cardinals Stadium have been sold. To the
University of Phoenix.
Now I know that U of P is a corporate entity more than a school, but it is deliciously funny to see a corporation
pay to call a stadium "University of [anything] Stadium".
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Don't forget Jack Murphy Stadium being Qualcomm Park. And the Pond may no longer be the Pond.
Nothing annoys me more than corporate naming right, especially on the old stadiums.
There's only been one that was really good and that was The Great Western Forum (I honestly never realized "Great Western" referred to the old bank until I was in college).
Posted by: KG at September 26, 2006 07:34 PM (AC0TE)
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I totally blanked on Jack Murphy, and there are a ton of other good examples.
Posted by: caltechgirl at September 26, 2006 07:39 PM (r0kgl)
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Two words:
Enron. Field.
I'm sure that some of the teams will be embarrassed, come the future, to see who they've chosen to get in bed with, so to speak.
Posted by: ricki at September 27, 2006 07:23 AM (VRP1v)
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I actually attend UoP and cracked up when we got that announcement.
13 more classes and I'm done....
...and that's if I can't CLEP or get some credit for some of the training I've done.
UoP is one of the schools that you only get out of it what you put into it. If I didn't travel, I'd go to a "traditional" school.
Such is life...
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September 25, 2006
Holy Google, Batman!
Wow, I'm link #10 for "
olympus fashion week project runway". Seven of the nine links ahead of me are either OFW official pages, or major media pages covering OFW. And I'm only the 3rd blog, behind the greatness that is
BPR...
If you got here looking for fabulousness, welcome, and have a look around!
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Well, you *are* fabulous...
Posted by: Richmond at September 25, 2006 05:51 PM (e8QFP)
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you are also very funny!
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Obsess Much?
Work is a shitstorm right now for reasons I am unable to reveal publicly.
So, in order to make myself laugh (at least), here are the lyrics to "White and Nerdy" so that you can officially verify that you too are "Too white and nerdy..."
Lyrics below the jump!
more...
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September 24, 2006
My New Theme Song
Courtesy of Weird Al:
Oh, and just to prove what a freaking nerd I am, the equation displayed behind Al and Donny Osmond is the
most common form of the time-independent version of Schroedinger's wave equation for non-relativistic systems
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Posted by: Sissy at September 24, 2006 04:20 PM (e+8WB)
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Dude, was that Donny Osmond in the background?
Posted by: Contagion at September 24, 2006 05:05 PM (0m/ho)
Posted by: Amy at September 24, 2006 05:27 PM (DWNNI)
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YES! That IS Donny Osmond!
Posted by: caltechgirl at September 24, 2006 06:00 PM (r0kgl)
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I identified with WAAAAY too many of the parts of that song...
Posted by: G at September 24, 2006 06:09 PM (/b6MF)
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holy crap! that was great.
**hangs head in shame at how much that video mirrors reality**
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at September 24, 2006 07:06 PM (0Pi1o)
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I heard him interviewed on the Glenn Beck show on Friday. He's fantastic.
Posted by: jen at September 25, 2006 09:28 AM (XBUdh)
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Holy Crap. That is all.
Posted by: Sharon at September 25, 2006 03:09 PM (pgnbp)
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"People keep telling me I'm making a comeback. Uh, I never realized I was gone."
--Weird Al
Posted by: Dave J at September 25, 2006 06:40 PM (SKqxt)
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*LOL* geez, it's scarey to realize how many of the 'white and nerdy' items I can claim as my own!!
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September 23, 2006
I suck
So this week was my turn for the Spyvella chapter, but I have been dealing with some major issues at work (hence the dearth of posting this week). I'll try to get it together and post it soon. Promise!
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Honey,
You take as long as you need. There isn't a gun to your head or a bomb to defuse. (Sorry, I couldn't resist).
I do hope you are okay.
Posted by: Phoenix at September 23, 2006 09:10 PM (t385r)
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Hope all is well. let me know if I can help!
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September 22, 2006
Seven Songs
Ok, so
I got tagged and it's Friday. Here we go:
List seven songs you are into right now. No matter what the genre, whether they have words, or even if theyÂ’re not any good, but they must be songs youÂ’re really enjoying now. Post these instructions in your blog along with your seven songs. Then tag seven other people to see what theyÂ’re listening to.
This I can do. They're not really "new" by any stretch, but they are the ones I've been listening to and thinking about...
1. "Lovers in a Dangerous Time" -- Barenaked Ladies
Don't the hours grow shorter as the days go by
You never get to stop and open our eyes
One minute you're waiting for the sky to fall
The next you're dazzled by the beauty of it all
Lovers in a dangerous time
These fragile bodies of touch and taste
This fragrant skin this hair like lace
Spirits open to the thrust of grace
Never a breath you can afford to waste
Lovers in a dangerous time
2. "The Dark of the Matinee" --Franz Ferdinand
Find me and follow me through corridors
Refectories and files you must follow
Leave this academic factory
You will find me in the matinee, the dark of the matinee
It's better in the matinee
The dark of the matinee is mine, yes it's mine
3. "The Difference" -- The Wallflowers
One, two boys by the river
Down by the water
Tellin' riddles in the dark
With fireflies under the moonlight
Carvin' the insides of a tree with a knife
Ever hear the one about the boy's big sister
His best friend come along
He tried to kiss her
The only difference
That I see
Is you are exactly the same
As you used to be..
4. "Ever the Same" -- Rob Thomas
We would stand in the wind
We were free like water
Flowing down
Under the warmth of the sun
Now it's cold and we're scared
And we've both been shaken
Look at us
Man, this doesn't need to be the end
Just let me hold you while you're falling apart
Just let me hold you so we both fall down
Fall on me tell me everything you want me to be
Forever with you
Forever in me
Ever the same
5. "Home" -- Barenaked Ladies
Where does the heart reside
If not where I lay my head?
I could run but I'm petrified
And choose this instead
Again and again
6. "Californication" -- Red Hot Chili Peppers
Destruction leads to a very rough road
But it also breeds creation
And earthquakes are to a girl's guitar
They're just another good vibration
And tidal waves couldn't save the world
From Californication
7. "This Love" -- Maroon 5
I was so high I did not recognize
The fire burning in her eyes
The chaos that controlled my mind
Whispered goodbye and she got on a plane
Never to return again
But always in my heart
Oh, and I tag the rest of the
Cotillion ladies who haven't done this one yet!
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That's a pretty good list...
Posted by: Velociman at September 23, 2006 06:30 AM (PPmlF)
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Love Maroon 5 & Franz Ferdinand...
I'm gonna have to steal this.
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September 21, 2006
Democrats say the darndest things....
Someone's been drinking the Kool Aid. In fact, a couple of someones.
Let's start with Charlie Rangel, who once slammed President Bush by saying"[H]e has shattered the myth of white supremacy once and for all."
And then there's Nancy "Botox Babe" Pelosi, who once called him "...a man ... who [has] consistently failed to lead our country on the most pressing issues."
Well, today Rep. Rangel blasted Hugo Chavez of Venezuela for attacking President Bush and calling him the "devil". Hot Air has the video.
This from the man who openly supports Hugo Chavez' best amigo, fidel castro (begins halfway through the clip):
Interestingly, Rangel has backpedaled, issuing a statement that what he takes issue with is merely Chavez' "personal" attack on the President. Yeah, right, Charlie. Keep digging. See quote above.
Or how about this one from Nancy herself: "[his] capacity to lead has never been there. In order to lead, you have to have judgment. In order to have judgment, you have to have knowledge and experience. He has none,'' Where was Charlie for this one?
Rep. Pelosi joined in the fun too. Calling Chavez a "thug", she blasted Chavez for "abusing the privilege" of speaking at the U.N. Ha! She's defending a man she believes is "an incompetent leader. In fact, he's not a leader, he's a person who has no judgment, no experience and no knowledge of the subjects that he has to decide upon.'"
Hypocrite much?
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it's almost like the squabbling siblings in a big dysfunctional family...
"YOU can't insult our president! Only WE can insult our president!!!"
Posted by: ricki at September 22, 2006 05:21 AM (VRP1v)
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Don't you just love it when they make fools of themselves? I do!
Posted by: oddybobo at September 22, 2006 06:21 AM (mZfwW)
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I think Rangel and Pelosi were right to say what they said. It is one thing for Americans to squabble internally, and quite another for a foreign head of state to join in the fun. If some America-hating thug had come here and said the same thing about President Clinton, I hope our guys would have said the same.
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September 19, 2006
A Gender Gap in Science?
This study came out recently, and I'm not sure how I feel about it. Ok, that's wrong. On the face,
without having read the actual text yet, I disagree with [the media's presentation of] it ENTIRELY.
You see, there's a very important factor that either they've overlooked or the media has chosen not to report....
Let me explain:
First of all, I want to make it clear that I've never experienced that kind of discrimination personally. As an undergrad, while Caltech had 4 times as many males on campus as females, the Bio department was almost 50-50. In graduate school, out of about 30 students in my program, 6 were guys. My advisor was female, too. So was her postdoctoral advisor.
Here, half of my department is female, including our chair.
But on to my main point:
One thing the study doesn't seem to consider is that women often PREFER to opt out of the higher academic jobs because of the demanding schedule. We CHOOSE to remain in a comfortable lab, where our schedule is more flexible, we can work with the people we choose to work with, and we have time to be ourselves and actually SEE our families.
This is the elephant in the living room. Academic Science has many of them.
Sure, a lot of women who are Dr. Shalala's age and even up to 20 years younger had to deal with chauvinist pigs and glass ceilings and all that. They had to CHOOSE between a career and a family. Women scientists of MY generation can have both, and are frequently choosing personal fulfillment over professional, in many cases. I did. That's why I teach, rather than pursuing a traditional academic career track.
What these older chickies can't stand is the rearrangement of priorities in younger female scientists. They hate it that we wouldn't follow them blindly through the glass ceiling, that we can stop about a foot lower and say "Thanks, I'm good." That we refuse to blaze their trail just because it's there.
I'm not naive enough to say that discrimination DOESN'T exist. However, that doesn't mean that gender-based discrimination is the ONLY reason why women don't get the highest jobs in academic science and engineering. And it's naive of THEM to say otherwise.
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Posted by: Amanda at September 19, 2006 11:35 AM (ay+rD)
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You make some really good points and I would agree that discrimination isn't the
only reason, however in some sciences - for example, Computer Science (my field) - it definitely exists and is a huge problem. There are many studies that I've run across that indicate that the discrimination problem isn't as pronounced in sciences other than CS - and for that I'm grateful.
Why we have such a problem in CS, I'm not sure - and neither is the majority of the CS world. But it's not even all discrimination - some of it is the perception of discrimination that chases young women out of the field before they really give it a fair shake. Some of it is stereotypical profiling of the "computer geek". And some of it is the boys club attitude found in CS departments - even amongst students. I ran into to it to a degree in my undergrad and got around it primarily by either self-deprication (deflect their posturing with blondeness and it loses its appeal) or simple tom-boyishness (which wasn't a stretch for me, still isn't.) (But I was the sole female in the major all four years.) Ran into it some in my MS but got around it by saying I wanted to teach (a traditionally female role.) (Was one of probably 5 females in the Master's program). Run into it daily in my corporate job - haven't figured a way out of it yet because I don't want to be the discrimination chick.
Anyway, in some scientific fields it really is a problem - not always for the reasons they state, and we shouldn't negate or neglect the points you raise either.
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I was one of very few females at the time in my field of Computer Science. Hey, I graduated in '89. What I ran into was that most of the women I worked with had 'an attitude'. Which in turn fed the 'good ol boys' and ... you get the picture. The few times I ran into some kind of harassment, I met it head on and it was solved. Like telling the VP my eyes were on my head not on my chest. But believe it or not, I had more issues with the women. I had a woman boss who did not want to give me a raise because I didn't give 120%. Like you, I enjoyed my vacations and family time (though I did not have children at the time). She couldn't understand why I didn't want to work 80 hours a week and 'show the men up'. Uhhh. Considering I was doing the same work as a man who was 2 levels senior to me, why would have I have to do any more to 'show someone up'? sigh... you got me started. I'll stop here. Enjoy your life. Don't let the ones with no self assurance get you down.
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Posted by: rightwingprof at September 20, 2006 07:26 AM (hj1Wx)
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Oh man I could say so much..., but I will summarize.... (from the Engineerign side).
School:
- University was 60/40 female, Science was majority male, which was skewed by engineering, scinces were closer togehter.
- Quite a few women left engineering because they weren't intererested. (Isn't that what women with freedom are allowed to do?)
- On a random note, while in school they would "express concern over the number of women in engineering", they never commented that 2 out of 60 students in psychology were male.
Work:
Private Sector:
- Women who strted with me advance at relatively the same rate, where all pretty much at the same point.
- Quite a few Sr. Level women I have met/worked with are single or divorced. However, many of them achivied the most while single and cut back for marrage or children.
- There is a slight bias in favor of hiring women & minorites driven by government affirmative action requirements in contracts.
Public:
- Not too much going on here, up to a certian level, the work you do relates in no way to moving up in the agency, call it the ability to "fail upwards".
- There are soem high level women in public agencies and they bust there ass and put their time in like their male counterparts.
- Once again a slight advantage to women & minorites depending on the agency.
But over all, if women choose their career, career path and how far they want to advance in their career...what the hell is the problem?
Posted by: the Pirate at September 20, 2006 08:49 AM (tM0AO)
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Very well said.
Your comments also apply to professions other than science.
Posted by: Christina at September 20, 2006 08:53 AM (Slc5L)
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YEP! That's why I quit grad school (biophysics) and I'm now a programmer with two kids.
It was pretty much expected you'd stay in the lab until 1 or 3 am, and (if you were on the "bad campus" in downtown Baltimore) that meant you were stuck there until morning. The last safe bus left at 11.
That's just nuts. I decided I actually wanted to see my husband and not be crazy. (That and I wanted to be paid, and get credit for what I did, and all that fun stuff.)
Oh, plus I didn't get into my top FIVE choices of lab. Not sure why. A few of them someone else just got to before I did, which is normal... but three of them wouldn't even let me do a rotation. And they weren't all full -- they let some of my fellow students do rotations. Male? Yeah. But I think it was more likely discrimination against the biologist. (My degree is in Molecular biology and all the other students were physics majors. If they had a problem with that or what I wanted to study (which I stated VERY CLEARLY when I interviewed) they shouldn't have accepted me.)
Posted by: silvermine at September 20, 2006 12:50 PM (hn7Rm)
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Yep. There's something to be said for contentment. Not everyone wants to climb the ladder like a raging bull. Some who are that type become so bitter. As they say -- you never read on a tombstone that John Doe wished he'd spent more time at the office.
My closest college friends and I were math majors, at a school known for its rigorous math program. I recall our classes being pretty much 50/50 with females to males. And that was in the mid-80s.
Just because we haven't chosen to move mountains with our brains doesn't mean we don't have the aptitude.
It's all about making thoughtful choices.
Posted by: Marie at September 21, 2006 06:30 AM (XzzJz)
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I just wish that some people could ACCEPT that we're "good" with where we are. I've had people (at meetings, etc.) look at me in disbelief when they find out I don't live in the lab.
eh, whatever. I don't have a spouse/kids but I'm still interested in having a life outside of research.
Which is why I'm at a small, teaching-focused college. I'm pretty happy (but do regularly complain that they need to raise admission standards). If I'm doing well, I publish an article in a minor journal every year and in a "national" journal every two or three years. And I'm not expected to bring in megabucks in grants - I'm kind of left alone to pursue what interests me, and that is what makes me happy.
I think in some sectors there's almost a reverse discrimination - that there are some women that think that if you're not taking a battering ram to some perceived glass ceiling, if you're not engaging in every pissing contest, if you're not trying to forcibly change the world, then you're wasting your time and you're actually a detriment to "the movement." Feh. There's a lot to be said for being happy. And what's to say I'm not changing the world, but that I'm doing it in a different way - through inspiring a student or maybe even doing something OUTSIDE of my work-field.
Posted by: ricki at September 21, 2006 06:35 AM (VRP1v)
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Thank you!
It's significant that none of these studies ever look at science faculty at small, primarily teaching schools. There, faculty tends to be a lot more balanced even in the physical science. My tiny five-person chemistry/physics department has two women, and in our last two searches, at least half the applicants were women. The evidence on this is anecdotal, since no one's really crunched the numbers, but from those I know who looked for small-school academic jobs, a lot of women are opting to go that route if they want to teach and do research. The job is less focused than it would be at a research university, but is also more flexible and less stressful, plus getting to know your students is expected rather than avoided!
Posted by: Wade at September 21, 2006 08:20 AM (oK1Vc)
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They hate it that we wouldn't follow them blindly through the glass ceiling, that we can stop about a foot lower and say "Thanks, I'm good."
Oh God, AMEN.
I do work in a scientific field-I'm an engineer, and the only female one of those in a sea of males. It's not that I don't think I can break through the glass ceiling (which, come to think of it, I don't think can be done)-it's that I don't see the point. I don't want to be a CEO-why take all that stress and pressure?
Being resilient shouldn't be read as being wimpy.
Posted by: Helen at September 21, 2006 11:32 PM (sxb5W)
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Terrific post. You have made some excellent points here.
Posted by: Richmond at September 22, 2006 11:58 AM (e8QFP)
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I think you make some good points, that possibly women are more likely to prioritise family and other important parts of life over personal ambition and climbing the career ladder. But, to me, the more interesting question is why this is so. It seems unlikely that it's a coincidence or entirely biologically determined, and I think it's obvious that there is pressure on women to put their own ambitions second to family life etc, when there is often no such pressure on their male counterparts.
Also it works both ways, maybe men are under undue pressure to advance their careers and they miss out on things like spending time with their young children, having a fulfilling life outside of work etc. I think that what we need is a balance between the two extremes for everyone, and a recognition that both career and family are important.
Hopefully this would lead to an improved situation for both women and men, and would even out the gender gap at work and also at home and in childcare.
Posted by: Sarah at September 23, 2006 10:24 AM (KrCMZ)
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Thanks for you comment over at my
Weekend Pundit discussion of the same topic. Though I haven't read the book you dismiss, the excellent point you raise in your entry is valid. But why?
The 1991 book Brain Sex by Anne Moirs and David Jessel, which sponsored a revolution to my then-feminist mode of thinking, states it in one word: testosterone.
It's why there are so few female UPS drivers, for instance. Women don't have the drive, no pun intended, to do package delivery for 10 hours a day, a brutal though excellent way for a low-skill guy to make a living. It does have its drawbacks: after air traffic controllers, UPS drivers have the highest rate of divorce of any occupation.
A nice way of looking at it is that brains, which are wired in utero, reconfirm a rather traditional view of the sexes. Your need to have more of a flex schedule, even though you're just as good or better than your male peers, means that advancement will be denied you more often during the course of a career.
At times, though, this is circumvented by affirmative action. But I for one oppose treating people in any other way than as individuals when it comes to the law and the marketplace.
BTW, have you seen the Wikipedia entry on Donna Shalala? It's funny when it goes she's never been married "wink, wink."
Posted by: Brent at September 24, 2006 07:01 AM (i+uCz)
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For her contribution to utterly unsupported and damaging literature about women and society I have awarded Brizendine the first annual "More Likely to Be Killed By a Terrorist Than Marry Retraction" award, named for the 1986 Newsweek story, retracted this year. See my blog, http://gettoworkmanifesto.com/blog/, for the details. Put another way, A Million Little Made Up Footnotes.
Posted by: Linda Hirshman at September 26, 2006 02:41 PM (2pxF1)
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Should not be necessary, but I'll mention that this post was a response to the prior comment that it's hard wired in utero, just another example of the poison spread in the social discourse by the Terrorist Retraction Award winning "Female Brain."
Posted by: Linda Hirshman at September 26, 2006 02:44 PM (2pxF1)
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I guess I'm growing up...
As some of you may know, I felt like shit last night. On top of
whacking my head sunday night, the sinuses on the other side decided it
was time to play catch-up, including a sore throat. Well, nothing
worked, and even the damn chloraseptic wore off too soon, so I asked hubby
to go out and get us milkshakes to fix my throat. He got back about 10, just
in time to put on the news, right?
I get about halfway through my milkshake, look up, and there's
John Fucking FlipFlopper KetchupBoy spewing about how his religion
makes him who he is and how that should be important to everyone at
some speech he gave at Pepperdine (he was really in town to raise $$
for Angelides....)
I
DID NOT throw my milkshake at the TV. It was hard. I
DID
manage to grab the remote and change the channel, though. But my hands
were shaking and I had to actually tell myself to put down the cup and
get the remote.
Hubby said he was proud of me. Probably because he would have had to clean it up.....
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I'm glad you didn't waste a perfectly good milk shake on that schmuck. It would have been a shame.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at September 19, 2006 11:34 AM (0uaKa)
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you should have changed to the dodger game...
Posted by: KG at September 19, 2006 02:06 PM (AC0TE)
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Oh I found his trip even better, given his BS in West Hollywood where reported as: "Kerry referred repeatedly to state programs that had been cut and to
politics that caters to special interests"WHICH given that I know exactly whre he was, who he was talking to and what he was doing before that speech, it just shows him to be full of nothing but shite.
Posted by: the Pirate at September 20, 2006 08:59 AM (tM0AO)
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Ohhh...milkshake. Nummy, yummy.
KetchupBoy (emphasis on boy)...ugh. Not worth the price of that milkshake, or the sacrifice that your throat would have made.
I am damn proud of you!!
Posted by: Dana at September 20, 2006 06:07 PM (Zp/ni)
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September 18, 2006
Must... Get Through... Today....
I think I've got a concussion.
I was sitting at the base of our stairs because it's a good place to watch TV and talk on the phone (to
this lovely lady, my
homeboy, and then my Mom last night, actually). It's far enough away from the TV that it's not blaring into the phone, but directly across from the screen. Plus the carpet is pretty nice. Nicest carpet we've ever had, in fact.
So I was chatting away with Mom and the Princess decided to favor me with one of her toys. Not thinking clearly, I leaned over to pick it up, and then sat up to toss it for her.
When I sat up, I brought the top of my head into direct contact with the bottom end of the handrail of the stairs at full speed.
You know the little birdies on the Warner Brothers' cartoons? Yeah, I saw those.
Anyway, after about 30 minutes of ice and two Advil, I was ok, but this morning I'm sore all over and the headache? She refuses the Advil and caffeine treatment. I've had post concussion syndrome before (dropped on my head in college), so I know the drill. At least it's just a regular headache, not a migraine, although even my damn teeth hurt.
Now it's just a matter of sitting here two hours and then driving home. Yay, home. Maybe I'll bugger off early. I do have things I need to work on at home....
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Ouch. Hope you are feeling better soon.
Posted by: vw bug at September 18, 2006 01:38 PM (HVeEK)
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Yowza!! Hope you're better soon - wouldn't a margarita help? (at least until the morning, but then it's a whole night without the headache!)
Posted by: Mrs_Who at September 18, 2006 02:27 PM (NfSVQ)
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I feel your pain!
Did you see my post on my drunken escapade 2 weekends ago?
Posted by: Sissy at September 18, 2006 06:45 PM (e+8WB)
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Yikes!!!! Take it easy...
Posted by: Amy at September 18, 2006 07:15 PM (DWNNI)
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Good Lord almighty...
Feel better, mah dear. ((HUGS))
Posted by: Dana at September 18, 2006 10:25 PM (Zp/ni)
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