July 16, 2007
Mutter this:
This week's
Unconscious Mutterings:
1. Situation ::
2. Theme song ::
3. Kelly ::
4. Club ::
5. Swerve ::
6. Couch ::
7. Bigfoot ::
8. Arbitrary ::
9. Inventor ::
10. Blazer ::
As always, my answers in the extended and feel free to play along in the comments!
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1. Situation :: room
2. Theme song :: MASH [?]
3. Kelly :: Suburban Blight
4. Club :: Gitmo
5. Swerve :: crash
6. Couch :: potato
7. Bigfoot :: sasquatch
8. Arbitrary :: random
9. Inventor :: marconi
10. Blazer :: truck
Posted by: pam at July 17, 2007 06:21 AM (l6NIn)
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Now that I've seen yours, my answers look weird... always happens like that.
Posted by: pam at July 17, 2007 06:23 AM (l6NIn)
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1. Situation :: Normal, All F****** up (SNAFU)
2. Theme song :: ?????
3. Kelly :: girl
4. Club :: DV8
5. Swerve :: squirrel
6. Couch :: potato
7. Bigfoot :: hairy
8. Arbitrary :: legal system
9. Inventor :: Edison
10. Blazer :: hot
Posted by: Mrs. Who at July 17, 2007 12:39 PM (YU6UF)
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1. Situation :: Normal
2. Theme song :: Gilligan's Island
3. Kelly :: Clarkson
4. Club :: Med
5. Swerve :: Sharply
6. Couch :: Potato
7. Bigfoot :: Big shoe
8. Arbitrary :: Law enforcement
9. Inventor :: Edison
10. Blazer :: White
Posted by: Jay at July 17, 2007 06:35 PM (Z7+lJ)
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1. Situation :: Upheaval
2. Theme song :: John Williams
3. Kelly :: Irish (World Cup, of course)
4. Club :: Beaters
5. Swerve :: flying car!
6. Couch :: common room
7. Bigfoot :: Crabbe
8. Arbitrary :: Educational Decrees
9. Inventor :: Nicholas Flamel
10. Blazer :: Ginny Weasley
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July 12, 2007
Haven't done one of these in a while!
Care to play along? As always, my answers in the extended...
1. Happen ::
2. Terribly ::
3. History ::
4. Master ::
5. Petrified ::
6. Moan ::
7. Attack ::
8. Picture ::
9. Students ::
10. Potter ::
More weekly mutterings here.
h/t Quicksilver Jenna
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Mine:
1. Happen :: Stance
2. Terribly :: Rotten
3. History :: Matters
4. Master :: Mistress
5. Petrified :: Rock
6. Moan :: Myrtle
7. Attack :: Counter-attack
8. Picture :: Perfect
9. Students :: Books
10. Potter :: MANIA!!!!
(Yeah, I'm a little excited)
Posted by: Phoenix at July 12, 2007 12:56 PM (4N2f4)
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1. Happen :: Stance
2. Terribly :: Excited
3. History :: Book
4. Master :: Mind
5. Petrified :: Wood
6. Moan :: Wail
7. Attack :: Dog
8. Picture :: Perfect
9. Students :: Teachers
10. Potter :: Clay
Posted by: beth at July 12, 2007 01:03 PM (mL6ts)
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1. Happen :: stance
2. Terribly :: strong
3. History :: repeats itself
4. Master :: mind
5. Petrified :: forest
6. Moan :: groan
7. Attack :: dog
8. Picture :: perfect
9. Students :: teachers
10. Potter :: mania
Posted by: pam at July 12, 2007 01:26 PM (l6NIn)
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. Happen :: lately
2. Terribly :: early
3. History :: makers
4. Master :: and commander
5. Petrified ::BOO!
6. Moan :: whine
7. Attack :: Dragon
8. Picture :: book
9. Students :: read
10. Potter :: meddle
Posted by: nulaanne at July 12, 2007 06:38 PM (rUXwd)
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1. Happen :: what will
2. Terribly :: anxious
3. History :: Binns
4. Master :: house elf
5. Petrified :: Neville
6. Moan :: Myrtle
7. Attack :: Voldemort
8. Picture :: Fat Lady
9. Students :: Dumbledore's Army
10. Potter :: Ginny's man
Posted by: sarahk at July 12, 2007 09:48 PM (QLpkT)
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1. Happen :: Upon
2. Terribly :: Sorry
3. History :: Major
4. Master :: Baiter
5. Petrified :: Wood
6. Moan :: Groan
7. Attack :: Weasel
8. Picture :: Box
9. Students :: Classes
10. Potter :: Harry
Posted by: Jay at July 13, 2007 12:03 PM (WszIH)
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Interesting what everyone comes up with... posted mine...
Posted by: vw bug at July 13, 2007 12:25 PM (FPOeI)
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1. Happen::stance
2. Terribly::pock-marked
3. History::teacher
4. Master::carpenter
5. Petrified::fossil
6. Moan::groan
7. Attack::dog
8. Picture::perfect
9. Students::aaahhh! (I'm not ready to go back to teaching yet!
10. Potter::Harry
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July 09, 2007
Step right up, folks! It's a contest, well, sorta....
It's time to make your "official" predictions for who lives and dies in Harry Potter 7. No major prizes, just brownie points and maybe gratutious linky love. Your prediction should have two parts: 1) Does Harry make it, or not? 2) Who else did she kill off?
Even if you've only seen the movies, I'm interested in other people's takes on it. Especially if you disagree radically, or if you agree, but for different reasons. Post your predictions in the comments. Contest ends July 20, 2007. Void where prohibited. Do not fold, spindle, or multilate.
I'll start: My own "official" prediction is Snape and Hagrid. Maybe Draco Malfoy. Snape is a good guy and proves it via his death. Similarly I suspect Malfoy bites it to prove his own "redemption". And poor Hagrid is the "Innocent" of the stereotypical hero myth, so I suspect he gets caught in the crossfire and his senseless death serves as a spur to Harry's ultimate action against He Who Shall Not Be Named. I think Harry lives too. He almost MUST. And if Harry lives, Ginny probably does too. Remember, Harry WILL end up with Ginny. Hermione is in love with Weasley. Speaking of, if she kills off either Ron or Hermione before they get a happily ever after I will hurl the book at whatever is close and cry for a while. Profanity will be uttered, too. Deep, dark profanity, of the sort that forms the proverbial cloud over Lake Michigan...
this post inspired by sarahk's
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I think Neville or Hagrid will die. Oooh - or maybe even Professor McGonagall! I can't wait to get my hands on this book.
Posted by: Kate at July 09, 2007 08:15 PM (XargM)
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I'm thinking Snape and Neville for sure will die. Snape either because he's proving he's good like you posit or because he's unable to do so. I lean slightly on the Snape is bad side of things though - Dumbledore wasn't completely unfoolable. I kind of wonder if she's going to kill off Ginny though - it adds to the tragic hero bit for Harry (everyone who loves him dies - reference his parents, Dumbledore, and now Ginny) plus it has potential to cause a rift between him and Ron, which she seems to delight in doing.
I don't think she'll kill of Harry simply because she's a business woman and knows that doing that really kills off the franchise, no matter how many spinoffs might come from side characters, without Harry she loses a lot of her audience.
Posted by: beth at July 10, 2007 04:45 AM (YxbTJ)
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I can buy the Snape dying. I believe that Rowling has tried to make this character as misunderstood and at times, ambivalent as possible to later "reveal" that he was working on the good side afterall. Maybe that's wishful thinking. Along with wishful thinking, I hope Draco has some sort of redemption. Rowling again has set that up by showing him as fearful and hesistant during the sixth book. I hope that leads to him to the good side. But I don't want him to die. But that could be poetic at the end if he dies in an attempt to save Harry. I think a Weasley *MUST* die. I don't hate saying that too much either. I don't want it to be one of the twins but I would not be surprised if it were Ginny or Ron. Better Ron than Ginny, I say. And the foreshadowing of Ron sacrificing for the good of the mission has already occurred as witnessed in the chamber of secrets.
As for Harry dying? No way. Not in a million years. If she kills off Harry, she'll alienate her younger fans who won't understand his death and that could be tragic for the entire "Harry Potter" enterprise (ie. the theme parks, merchandising, movies, tv specials, possible sequals)...As Beth said, it'd be a bad business decision. Although the Christ allegory that some claim that the Harry Potter series references would be better served if he *did* die (...and maybe somehow was revived/resurrected?) -- but Rowling can still keep that allegory strong by making it clear that Harry Potter is WILLING to die, willing to lay down his life for the greater good.
And yes, I'm done. I'm way too involved in this series, as you can tell.
Posted by: Jody at July 10, 2007 06:20 AM (IEpte)
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I'm hoping they kill of Jar-Jar Binks.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at July 10, 2007 06:33 AM (+MvHD)
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I do not believe that Harry will die. He has scraped by too many times to build up to...his death? no way!
I think that Neville will die. I also suspect Luna could go and maybe even Ron. I expect that Scabbers/Pettigrew will die because of the debt he owes Harry that must be repaid. And, I suspect that Snape will also shuffle off, though I'm still on the fence as to whether he is good or evil, or perhaps just out for himself? I don't know. I can tell you that I am primed and pumped and farookin' ready to get my hands on the book!
Posted by: Phoenix at July 10, 2007 06:43 AM (4N2f4)
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If a Weasley has to die, I hope it's Percy.
Posted by: Jenna at July 10, 2007 07:58 AM (fd/rX)
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I don't think that Percy will die, that's too easy. The readers have no real emotional attachment (other than thinking he's an absolute wanker --hehe-- gotta use the British terms). If he dies, I think another more likable Weasley will die too.
And yes, on the baddie side, Pettigrew will have to die, I think she's set us up for that. (And Voldemort as well)...
Posted by: Jody at July 10, 2007 08:05 AM (IEpte)
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I've never read any of the books nor seen any of the movies, but the rest of my family are card-carrying Potter-heads. This is what I tell them:
The BIG SECRET in Book VII will be that Harry and Hermione are really brother and sister and that Valdamort is their father. He'll die only after turning good and reconsiling with Harry. In the meantime, a loveable army of House Elves will save Hogwarts from a surprise attack by the armies of darkness.
There are times when my family doesn't like me very much.
Posted by: Robbo the Llama Butcher at July 10, 2007 08:20 AM (0JsTF)
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I'm scared to guess...I know at least two characters will die, maybe more. I'd say Hagrid, Hermione, and maybe Draco.
No matter what, I'll be getting my book at midnight and reading it straight through.
Posted by: Mrs. Who at July 10, 2007 08:34 AM (9FXen)
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Another 10 minute quiz
Name all
43 Presidents. It took me less than 5 minutes, but I would have been done in under 3 if I had remembered who was before old Abe sooner.
It's not super hard, as Presidents with the same last name are entered together when you type in the name. The timer starts when you click the link.
h/t El Capitan
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Oh, I don't think I should even attempt it. I do not know my presidents.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at July 09, 2007 04:26 PM (0Pi1o)
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Just could not remember Polk for some reason. 54-40 or Fight! ;-)
Posted by: Dave J at July 09, 2007 06:51 PM (PEbS4)
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I got all but one in less than two minutes. What irritates me is that it was Hayes that I had trouble with; usually it's Pierce.
Posted by: Ken S, Fifth String on the Banjo of Life at July 10, 2007 05:44 AM (PvqFn)
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June 05, 2007
Real life intervenes
Working on a book chapter. If you have keys, feel free to pop in and post! Otherwise, chat in the comments, I guess.
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Hope it goes well and quickly. Damn my brain is so fried I can't even think of a good comment. Heh...
Posted by: Teresa at June 05, 2007 02:13 PM (gsbs5)
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Have fun with the book!
Posted by: Contagion at June 05, 2007 03:25 PM (T4WRc)
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Hellloooooo
Mooooo
Barooooo
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May 25, 2007
May 25, 1977
Happy Birthday Star Wars!
So, did you see it on opening day? I was 6 months old then, so the answer is NO for me. In fact I didn't see one in the theater until Return of the Jedi.
How has Star Wars affected/changed YOUR life?
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I lived in Cody Wyoming in 1977, and it took until nearly August for it to arrive. They printed far fewer copies of films back then, and a lot of theaters in other cities were holding it over due to demand. I saw it at the drive-in with my family. I thought it was the coolest movie I'd ever seen. I still love a lot of the music soundtrack, but the original three movies have lost a lot of lustre for me. I barely acknowledge the later ones.
Posted by: PaleoMedic at May 25, 2007 09:58 AM (xirX/)
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No, not opening day. I was 14 and I wasn't allowed to go to PG movies. That fall, we moved to Canada, and it was only rated G there, so I finally got to see it!
Posted by: Ith at May 25, 2007 10:50 AM (T2ixI)
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OMG - you make me feel soooo old! I was home from college for the summer. I hadn't even heard about it and then one day it was all over the news about how people were standing in line, etc... it was the first movie to ever have advanced ticket sales. Up until then (well, maybe NYC was different) no one bought tickets until they walked up to the window and purchased them.
There was only one theater in St. Louis showing it. Luckily it was an excellent venue - I saw it (in a PACKED theater - 3 weeks after it opened) on a GIANT screen. It was, at that time, the most incredible movie I'd ever seen. There had never been special effects like that before. I was completely enchanted by the entire story (okay so I'm a sucker for that kind of good-evil storyline *grin*) and the ability of Lucas to create such realism on the screen.
It's hard to imagine now - but back then it was simply astounding. I loved it. Although I must admit, it did not change my life. LOL.
Posted by: Teresa at May 25, 2007 10:58 AM (gsbs5)
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Yes, it's burned into my memory. I saw Star Wars in the theater some time that summer. I was between my junior and senior years of college, and I was on vacation with my family. I believe we were in Ohio— it was definitely not in my home state of Wisconsin. We saw Star Wars listed in a local paper, and decided to go out and see it one evening. My younger brother was feeling sick to his stomach, he stayed behind in the motel room. The rest of us went out and... well...
You understand, I had
loved science fiction from an early age, but growing up I had been nearly alone in my taste for SF. I mean, I grew up back in an era when SF was a vaguely disreputable ghettoized genre, and not nearly as popular as it is today. So I was absolutely blown away by the movie. I had never seen anything like it. I had never imagined anything like it, except perhaps in my own SF-drenched imagination. Certainly never seen anything like it on the screen.
And what's more, I knew in my gut that I was seeing something
archetypal. Deep juju. There was something there that
resonated with me so deeply... This broke on me in an instant, very early in the movie, when Darth Vader first appeared on the screen.
It's hard to think of another movie that had such an impact on me the first time I saw it in the theater.
Posted by: Paul Burgess at May 25, 2007 03:44 PM (7EVyU)
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Star Wars was one of the first dates I had with the ex. We double-dated, and smuggled in a bottle of vodka. I insisted we sit on the front row. We polished off the bottle, and the next day I asked 'What the hell was that movie all about? What was with the wolfman in the spaceship?' I later saw it again. It wasn't too bad. But I've always cast a bit of a jaundiced eye at it because of the wookie.
Posted by: Velociman at May 25, 2007 03:51 PM (2+Qms)
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Just for the record...
YOU are a tard.
But I still totally love you.
Posted by: Mia at May 25, 2007 10:53 PM (8yLzc)
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You baby!!! I was 11. My most vivid memory of the movie was the ship in the opening scene...it just went on and on and on....
and also the trash compactor scene. Uhhh, the Stormtroopers couldn't find them down there?
And did it impact my life? Yeah, I fell in love with Harrison Ford!
Posted by: Mrs. Who at May 26, 2007 06:13 PM (9FXen)
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I actually saw it the year it was released, after my freshman year in college. I'm not a big sci-fi fan, but an English teacher from high school (who had abused me terribly-yet-justifiably while I was in her classes) highly recommended it. I loved it.
It really didn't change my life except for the fact that had I not seen it, I would now be more than $100 (compounded interest) richer had I not paid to see it.
Maybe I should sue George Lucas.
Posted by: Ken S, Fifth String on the Banjo of Life at May 26, 2007 06:32 PM (Yh9SA)
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May 06, 2007
The Princess is getting a puppy sister! Scratch That
One of the CaltechMom's friend's dogs recently had puppies, and as we've been thinking long and hard about getting a little sibling for the Princess, she offered us one, and we accepted!
The new puppy is a little black standard smooth-coated Dachshund, and CaltechMom will pick her up tomorrow.
The only problem is that we won't get to meet her until after Mom has had her for a couple of weeks. And she needs a name before then!.
This is where you all come in. We're having a hard time giving Puppy-girl a name!
We'd prefer a girly name, two syllables, since that's easiest for the dog to learn, and something suitable to a little black doxie.
Also, it can't rhyme with "Molly" or "Dolly" because the Princess' name already does.
Have at it folks. There may be a prize for the person suggesting the eventual name!
No Dog. She called my mom tonight and said her brother took my dog for himself. The rotten bastard.
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Oh my.
I had my boy about a month before I settled on his name, it took that long to get to know him well enough to name him.
Of course, he has his official name on his papers, but I have never called him by that name and I refuse to tell anyone what it is, its too embarassing.
Pictures! Pictures would help.
Posted by: LindaSoG at May 06, 2007 01:22 AM (GBBmd)
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I'm so jealous! I had dachshunds when I was growing up and I love them. I like the standard size - the miniatures are just too nervous.
Girl names for a doxie - Gretchen (I had a red long-haired doxie named Gretchen) - Heidi - Hilda - Hannah - Irmgard - Ingrid - Elke.
I think of those, I like Hannah the best.
Posted by: Beth at May 06, 2007 05:00 AM (poSM5)
Posted by: Christina at May 06, 2007 08:51 AM (d3xGU)
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Raven - because she's black (and it would start a cool new tradition of naming our pets/children for one another).
Vesta - your home already has a princess, how about adding a goddess (Roman goddess of the home).
Or I like Beth's suggestion of Hannah.
Posted by: Janette at May 06, 2007 12:20 PM (5R+zg)
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Oh and congratulations on the new puppy!
Posted by: Janette at May 06, 2007 12:21 PM (5R+zg)
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YAY a Dachshund baby!! Congratulations!! I remember when little Button fit in the palm of my hand, tail and all...

I knew a couple of cool dachshunds when I was young named Schotzy and Candy. I would never have named a dog 'candy' but it really fit this girl.
I do love Heidi for a dachshund, of course...
Posted by: pam at May 06, 2007 04:52 PM (l6NIn)
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Cool! Here are some good "German" names:
http://www.babynameworld.com/german-girl.asp
Congrats!
Posted by: vw bug at May 06, 2007 05:35 PM (FPOeI)
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Maybe it's a sign?
- Jon
- Daddy Detective
- www.daddydetective.com
Posted by: Jon at May 07, 2007 05:31 AM (Mxs0h)
Posted by: Marie at May 07, 2007 05:58 AM (ocfI9)
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ps -- you have a lot of good stuff posted here! I have to come back & read/watch it all when I have some time.
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Posted by: Janette at May 07, 2007 07:22 AM (5R+zg)
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I hope puppy shits all over his rugs. LOLLLLLL
Posted by: Margi at May 07, 2007 11:55 AM (qs4Ot)
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Sorry to hear that...
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April 04, 2007
March 23, 2007
Brother, can you spare a moment?
The internets are a funny thing, they bring us so close to people and places we would never have otherwise known. That can be a wonderful thing. The real shit of it, though, is when the people you care for are so far away, there is little you can do except offer a virtual hug and some words of comfort. But what makes it better is the ability to reach out to others and let them help you give those hugs and words.
A couple of my friends are going through some really rough times right now, and I'd really love it if you could click through and offer whatever support you can.
My dear Vanessa is 8 weeks pregnant with twins after 5 cycles of IVF, and she's alone today and having signs of a possible miscarriage despite a very encouraging report and scan last week. Drop by and offer her some encouragement, love, and prayers if you are so inclined.
And our Dana, who you may remember from her former blogs The Origin of Soul and Frankensoul as well as her most recent incarnation, The Juggler's Mistress, is starting the process of an emotionally difficult and financially draining divorce. Her blogdaddy Jim has all the details. Please click over to Jim's place for more.
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March 20, 2007
She called me back...
We officially have a realtor.
Here we go, folks.
Anyone house buying advice you can share would be much appreciated.
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Funny you should ask: http://sub2change.com/?p=36
I'll email you my phone number, too. You'll need someone on your side during this adventure.
Posted by: Aaron at March 20, 2007 05:21 PM (SbW5B)
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First big one... no matter what the realtor says... NEVER look at a house out of your price range. Just don't do it. It will always look wonderful and you'll know you can't afford it. I don't care if you are best buddies, they will always try to show you something - at least one place - you can't afford. (I think it's tatooed in their genetic code... I've never figured out why they do this)
Forget what people have in a place. The show House Hunters is interesting when you watch the morons who look at a room and say - "I hate the color" - GEEZE! Paint is your friend - rooms can always change colors - curtains can be changed. Now bad windows, or flooring, THAT is expensive to change. Wallpaper can be a real bitch, especially if you damage the walls taking it off.
Look at the layout and compare it with how you live. Will the television being on in one room blare through the whole place? Is there at least one "away room" where you can do quiet things?
Size doesn't matter as much as how the place feels. Room proportions, windows, kitchen set up, bathroom set up, laundry... You very likely won't get everything you want (if you do, let me know cause I haven't found a house like that yet!), but look for the one that comes as close as possible.
Trust your nose! Walk into a place and sniff - you're trying to detect musty-moldy smells, bad animal smells that might not be easily defeated. The house of a smoker will likely need complete repainting and even possibly new carpets or the smell will drive a non-smoker insane. (if you get a basement - it's especially important to note the smell down there - it WILL waft upstairs)
Look at the ceilings and down into the corners. You shouldn't see any cracking or peeling paint or discolored areas that look like they've been wet. If you have a basement with a sewer pipe running outside... does it show any signs of leakage? Look in the attics for signs of a leaking roof - not to mention - bats or other small animals.
Look at the street - how noisy is it? Is it a "pass-through"? What do the cars look like? What do the yards look like? Is it near any large noise making area? School? Church? both bring people and lots of traffic at various times. Everyone has different things they don't mind living with that would make someone else crazy.
Don't skip a good house inspection - it will help to save you from huge bills after the purchase.
I think that's enough to start with. There's so much it's almost scary to think about buying. Let me know if you have any questions. *grin*
Posted by: Teresa at March 20, 2007 05:37 PM (gsbs5)
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Seems that Teresa got it pin'd down. Particularly getting a house inspection. Well worth the money. Things I looked for in my home... outlets... where are they located? Vent over the oven, does it go outside or back int he kitchen)? fuse box location? vents for air conditioning (if there is a walk in closet, is a vent located there?)? I hated my last kitchen because the sink, oven, fridge did NOT work for me. Closets close to bathrooms... and the list could go on. Look at what you like now and what you would change. And absolutely do NOT look at houses outside of what YOU want to pay.
Posted by: vw bug at March 20, 2007 06:32 PM (PoOJ7)
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Be prepared for unbelievable stress. No one warned me just how stressed out I'd be. Hubby and I rarely fight. We were at each other's throats during the buying process. And I cried from stress every damn night. Find time to de-stress together, and don't blame each other for the stress.
Truly, I wish someone had told me how difficult buying a house would be on our marriage.
Then again, maybe we had so much stress because we were also selling a house. And because my MIL was also in the equation.
Good luck, sweetie.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at March 20, 2007 06:33 PM (0Pi1o)
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Plenty of vodka. Seriously. After I closed on Morrigan's house. We walked to the parking lot of the lawyer's office, and she handed me a bottle of Grey Goose and a 4 pack of sugar free Red Bull. My hands were shaking through the whole thing!
Posted by: Sissy at March 20, 2007 07:27 PM (y2kUf)
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Agreed on the alcohol thing but don't drink on closing day. Just drink in the evenings.
Don't let your conservative side be too much on the top. Yes, you are going to have to pay for ridiculous things and that will not change on your one small house sale. Yes, you'll have to pay for the privilege of conducting a sale, then you'll have to pay for a clerk to do his or her job related to the sale which you have already been paying for in taxes THEN you'll have to pay for insurance that covers the costs if that clerk (for whom you've already paid, twice now) does not do his/her job correctly.
For closing day, you'll want to prelube. They won't expect you to have done it, and it will make the screwing over a lot easier to take. Flexibility exercises ahead of time are a good idea also, since you're going to be in a bent-over position for a while.
However, one year later it will all be a distant memory.
Posted by: rsm at March 21, 2007 03:44 AM (asw+D)
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The only thing I have to add (besides Congratulations!) is that it always helped me to have a list (written! not just in my head) of my "must haves" -- and then, no matter what (I'll repeat myself - no matter what!) don't compromise on those "must haves". Cause you'll sit there with that very expensive millstone around your neck and curse yourself for not having insisted on such-and-such that house #3 had and blah blah blah.
On the flip side of that - try to keep your "must haves" list fairly short, cause chances are you're not going to find the *perfect* house.
Posted by: beth at March 21, 2007 06:17 AM (F6SSb)
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How exciting!
House hunting & buying is a very emotional and draining process. I agree with the idea of having a short list of "must haves." And if there's anything you truly do not want in a home, note that on your list of specs too. Then when you get all ga-ga over a place, refer back to your wishlist for a reality check.
I wanted an older home with a fireplace on a tree-lined street with sidewalks. That's just what I have. The layout sucks, but I still love it. I'm just a romantic sucker though!
Good luck and have fun!
Oh, and don't go for the max that you'd pre-qualify for, mortgage-wise. Leave yourselves some elbow room.
Posted by: Marie at March 21, 2007 07:34 AM (ocfI9)
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Oh, Yay!!!
Good luck!!
; )
Posted by: Christina at March 21, 2007 07:45 AM (mqy6N)
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Everyone pretty much said it all...but I do have one piece of advice. If you fall in love with a house, go for it! And it may or may not be the first house you see. When Eric and I were first house shopping when we got married, there was a place we completely fell in love with. It was the first one we saw, and every one told us "don't fall for the first one you see". Well, it turned out to be the "one", but by the time we made an offer (about two weeks later, after seeing a bunch of other places), it was under contract already.
That didn't happen with this house however: once we knew, we didn't want to lose "our" house again and made an offer the next day!
So just go with your gut, and if both you and DH love it, then go for it!
Posted by: Amanda at March 21, 2007 08:16 AM (rSpG8)
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Most of it has been said, but when you think you've found "THE" house, get the best building inspector you can. The money you spend on him will be worth any potential problems he can find and you can avoid.
Posted by: Mrs. Who at March 21, 2007 10:09 AM (NfSVQ)
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All the others have already said what I was going to. Just remember the difference between cosmetic and needing repairs.
Posted by: Contagion at March 21, 2007 05:03 PM (T4WRc)
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Walk through the house in the morning, evening and day to see the exact lighting. If you can see it during a heavy rain, that is a bonus.
If you all plan to have children, look at the school system. Actually, homes in good school districts sell easier than those not... so for resale, schools is a good thing to look at.
Posted by: Bou at March 21, 2007 07:14 PM (PQFHD)
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Oh, and visit the neighborhood at different times of day. Walk around & talk to the people who live there. Good to get a feel for the 'hood.
Posted by: Marie at March 22, 2007 06:49 AM (ocfI9)
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What area(s) are you looking at?
Posted by: Xrlq at March 25, 2007 08:34 PM (3usbu)
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Oh lord... You can sit by me, CTG. I'll bring the wine.
And enjoy the hunt, you guys are going to have a relly fun time! :-) The hunting part is the best part. :-)
Posted by: Richmond at March 26, 2007 11:51 AM (e8QFP)
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Because I'm bored with work and trying to be patient...
...waiting for the realtor to call me back....
Anyway, so I finally got the time to catch up on TV this weekend.
WTF with 24? I mean really. They bring back my FAVORITE Character of all time, and he's a f***ing wet nurse to a crazy person? I thought she was dealing better than THAT at the end of last season.
Yeah, I know that was last week. I'm just stuck there.
And did anyone else notice that Ricky Schroeder has that Luke Skywalker thing going on... he used to be cute but all of a sudden he looks WAY old? Hmmmm.
AND DWS (Dancing With the Stars) is back. Finally. I love that show. Yes, people are taking bets about Heather Mills' leg falling off on live TV. Sad. Really sad. As far as she's concerned, if she got all of Paul's $$, why the hell doesn't she have a better prosthetic? I mean you should see the cool robocop/ six million dollar man legs that some Iraq War amputees are getting. And the cheap ass VA pays for those.
In fact the TiVo is about to get quite busy. Deadliest Catch comes back in 10 days, and then LPBW starts the next week. And House returns next Tuesday courtesy of less AI.
So, what are you looking forward to watching this spring?
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I've about given up on 24 - this week's was pathetic. I may not watch next year. I'll finish this one because I started - but who the hell is writing this crap?
Anyhow, other than 24 I really don't watch much of anything. Maybe some basketball since we're into the March Madness season. I like college sports way more than pro. Most of those guys are still excited to just play.
Posted by: Teresa at March 20, 2007 02:36 PM (gsbs5)
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what is LPBW?
deadliest catch
the shield is coming up soon
heroes is still so far away
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at March 20, 2007 06:35 PM (0Pi1o)
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I was flipping between DWS and 24. Love both shows even though 24 blows as of lately. And I think Doyle is the mole. And if he is, Bou is doing the Chicken Dance!
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I need to think of a dance Sissy needs to do if Doyle isn't the mole... I'm thinking the electric slide.
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March 12, 2007
Since all the cool kids are doing it....
Shamelessly copied from
Rachel and
Mandy.....

Create your own Friend Quiz hereTake the quiz
here! I can't wait to see how well you do! I made some of the questions hard and some easy on purpose!
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**hangs head in shame**
it's been a long time since i read your eleventy-one things. time to re-read.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at March 13, 2007 04:17 AM (+MvHD)
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I too must re-read . . .
Posted by: oddybobo at March 13, 2007 05:05 AM (mZfwW)
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SM--- That's R.. SM
Not bad for only a few minutes of conversation...
I observe peeps.
Posted by: rsm at March 13, 2007 05:11 AM (VeRHk)
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UGH! Can I do a re-take?
I'm gonna have to read you're eleventy-one things again too! =/
Posted by: Amanda at March 13, 2007 07:13 AM (breLv)
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OK. That was dang hard.
Posted by: Marie at March 13, 2007 08:01 AM (ocfI9)
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...but fun! I'll have to waste some time creating one of these later.
Posted by: Marie at March 13, 2007 08:02 AM (ocfI9)
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I'm scared to take it...
Posted by: Richmond at March 13, 2007 10:07 AM (e8QFP)
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dang, I didn't think it was THAT hard....
Posted by: caltechgirl at March 13, 2007 10:10 AM (r0kgl)
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I only got 2 right! Wow, we should hang out more :-P
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Of course you don't think it's that hard...you know all the answers! =P
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March 09, 2007
March 07, 2007
This one's for the teachers: a question
So I know that many of you loyal readers (commenters and lurkers, both) are teachers, at many levels from preschool all the way up to college/ adult education.
I've got a question for you:
How do you explain to your students that just because your program is small and all of the faculty are willing to bend over backwards to help them, DOES NOT mean that they can take advantage of that on a regular basis?
For example, how do I explain that even though I told them I would be more than happy to answer questions, I WILL NOT tell them whether a particular number is the right or wrong answer. ESPECIALLY when the question is part of the take-home portion of the exam.
How do I explain that if there were 700 students in the class (as would be expected at a school like UCLA), as the instructor, I wouldn't give them the time of day, let alone guarantee that I wouldn't laugh at them for begging to have the exam postponed and then ADMITTING they were working on the take home test together???
I guess what I'm asking is how do I explain to these
children that even though there are only a few of them I am holding them to a high standard? And that it's for their own good? I mean, they are in this program because they want to go to
MEDICAL SCHOOL. They won't get any breaks there. And they MUST be up to standards, or they'll fail miserably.
I will not set them up for failure. They can't see that what I am teaching them is the VERY BASE for the next 7-12 years of their education. And if they don't get this, the rest will be even worse. If I don't hold them to the same standard, they
WILL fail.
So how do I do this without being the bad guy?
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You can't do it without being the bad guy - plain and simple. Sorry.
Posted by: Greta at March 07, 2007 02:15 PM (1aPAo)
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my answer exactly, you have to be the bad guy
Posted by: Jane at March 07, 2007 02:16 PM (86QII)
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Umm, fail them once or twice and see how they straighten up. I never had a teacher in High School or College that would even think of doing anything like that.
Posted by: Contagion at March 07, 2007 02:25 PM (L1GVu)
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I know, it's just harder to be the bad guy when it's a few students. With 700 others I could just say "so what?" and point to the fact that no one else is bitching.....
They already don't like me because I'm a hardass. At least in their minds.
Posted by: caltechgirl at March 07, 2007 02:39 PM (r0kgl)
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Well, I was always the bad guy, so take it with a grain of salt if you really want to try to avoid it - but I'd explain it just the way you did here. These are college kids, they should (theoretically) be able to handle a rationally presented explanation. And even if they're not thrilled, knowing where you're coming from is never a bad idea. That said, if they're really just hoping for the easy way out, no amount of truth or explanation is going do anything other than paint you as a villian. Keep doing the right thing though - the world needs more teachers who are strong enough to hang tough.
Posted by: beth at March 07, 2007 03:54 PM (bOETT)
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They deserve your honesty, really. The real world is harsh, as we all know. Many aren't prepared for that. I train in a corporation and it never fails to amaze me how many don't understand that they aren't "coddled" when it comes to work, that they need to pay attention, there will be an exam and if they don't pass, they won't have a job - plain, simple, consistent. I would disagree that you have to be the "bad guy" because I'm a firm believer that you can present it in a way that helps them understand your role is help them find the answers, not *give* them the answers. There will always be the few that won't understand - but chances are they won't quite make it through Medical School anyway.
Posted by: Merri at March 07, 2007 08:28 PM (fdAim)
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Personally, I'd address the class as a whole and explain it exactly like you did to us.
Tell them that you're willing to help them - to a certain extent - without giving them the answers... as long as they don't abuse your good nature or cheat. Also, explain that you are holding them to a high standard because if they don't understand the core - or "very base" - work now that THEY WILL FAIL LATER!
I'd also tell them if they think you're giving them a hard time they can go over to UCLA and see exactly how much individual time the professors give each student. It might be an enlightening field trip for them.
If that doesn't work give me a call, I'll run over their toes and smash their shins with my wheelchair. ;-)
V5
Posted by: V5 at March 08, 2007 03:37 AM (bP+3v)
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Why do you care if you're the bad guy? Do what you know you need to do. They'll get over it and be better off as a result.
Posted by: zonker at March 08, 2007 08:02 AM (PrUNH)
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They all want to be doctors right? Well, propose this scenario to them.
/begin preaching
How would you feel if you went to a doctor for a life threatening condition and you found out that the only reason the doctor got through medical school was because his teachers and other students helped him with all the exams and answers to homework questions. That the guy never did any of the work himself...
Would you trust this person to give you the very best care? Would you even trust this person to prescribe you aspirin... let alone some of the more involved drugs? Would you let this person operate on you?
What happens when you get out of med school and have to start working on your own - no one to ask for the answers? Will you kill someone in the first few months because you prescribed a medication without taking the proper precautions... or without giving the proper doses? All because you didn't have a teacher or one of the other students to tell you - "that's wrong"?
If they want to be good doctors, they need to start now - with the small stuff that doesn't matter. No one dies if they get the wrong answer on your test - but the practice of doing their own work, finding their own conclusions and working for the right answer will carry over to medical school and later to medical practice.
/end preaching
Maybe one or two will actually get it. The rest never will. And that's how you end up with such piss poor doctors in the world.
Posted by: Teresa at March 08, 2007 09:26 AM (gsbs5)
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I've found that the phrase, "I'm sorry but I can't do that," followed by an honest explanation usually works for me:
"I'm sorry, I can't do that, it wouldn't be fair to the other students."
"I'm sorry, I can't tell you the answer until after I have graded the exams. I need to see how you go about the thought process to get to the answer."
"No, I'm sorry, but when you get out into the working world, there won't be people providing you with help, so you need to learn to be resourceful now."
The thing is: you're not REALLY being the bad guy. They will think you are. They will probably piss and moan and complain about it on evaluations. But in truth, you would be being the bad guy IF you caved to their requests and continued to enable them in being infantile. Because then they wouldn't be able to function in the working world.
I had a high school chem teacher that I HATED. She always pissed me off. She was so hard-nosed and seemed so unfair and distant. And then - at the end of the year, when I graduated and realized I actually UNDERSTOOD chemistry and could DO chemistry on my own (and ultimately wound up tutoring a lot of people in my college dorm in chemistry), then I realized that she had actually been the GOOD GUY by insisting that we do it ourselves. (She also used to insist on tests that we figure out the correct answer for questions we got wrong, using our textbook and notes.)
Posted by: ricki at March 09, 2007 08:36 AM (O5SYw)
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February 20, 2007
Mardi Gras/ Ash Wednesday
So did you celebrate today?
What (if anything) are you giving up for Lent?
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I'm giving up moderation.
Posted by: Ken S, Fifth String on the Banjo of Life at February 21, 2007 07:08 AM (PvqFn)
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This year, as I find myself embroiled in spiritual confusion while seeking zen and protection in the form of red yarn from what George Bush so eloquently refers to as "evil-doers," I will be giving up Lent for Lent.
Posted by: Emily at February 21, 2007 08:54 AM (lXDk3)
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both great suggestions. I usually give up Lent for Lent.
Posted by: caltechgirl at February 21, 2007 11:07 AM (/vgMZ)
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Having grown up Catholic I became adept at picking something to abstain from that would please my parents, but that I could do without much sacrifice, like walking to school instead of taking the bus (hah! I loved walking and hated the bus).
Now I just lament the fact that I missed yet another Mardi Gras. Someday!
I do like Ken's idea though.
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Posted by: Contagion at February 21, 2007 03:58 PM (Tvc5M)
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I gave up moderation a long time ago. Since then my idea moderation has evolved. It's now "Everything in moderation, including moderation."
I'm not giving up on anything.
Posted by: aaron at February 23, 2007 11:48 AM (yTlwp)
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