No, you're not seeing things
Given my utter lack of Christmas cheer, I thought I might brighten things up with a return visit from the Snowfolks of No Evil, who some of you may remember from a couple of years back.
Boy, CSS is just like riding a bicycle... I haven't played with the site design in a while, and I was afraid I'd screw it up royal. Especially since I went from 2 columns to three since the Snowfolks last came out to play.
They need names, by the way. Any suggestions?
So enjoy the holiday theme. At least there's some snow in my virtual space....
An even BETTER way to say Thank You
In keeping with yesterday's post, a better way to say thank you to our vets is to give a little back to help a lot.
Long-time readers know that Soldier's Angels is one of my favorite groups, and in particular, Project VALOUR-IT which provides voice-activated laptops and other technological devices to wounded servicefolks who can't otherwise easily communicate with the outside world or who need help with rehabbing their injuries.
Imagine being stuck in a hospital in the Middle East or Germany, your family and friends thousands of miles away in the US, and your hands and arms are casted up. How do you hold the telephone? How can you type an email, even just to say, "I'm fine, and I love you?". VALOUR-IT makes that possible through our donations.
And VALOUR -IT depends on all of us. Without donations, they are quickly running out of funds with a waiting list hundreds of names long. Even a small donation ($5) goes a long way.
Each year, bloggers team up in a friendly competition to see which service can raise the most funds for our wounded vets. All the money goes to VALOUR-IT, regardless of which team you donate to, but it's fun to compete.
As usual, I am soliciting donations for Team Army (Go Army, Beat Navy!) in honor of my precious husband's service.
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I love this project and have supported it the last 2 years. Usually I support NAVY (BEAT ARMY!!!), but after being hijacked yesterday, I decided to switch over to USCG. Poor guys. They do a LOT here in San Diego, and I have a friend who is in the CG, so I figured why not.
Posted by: Jenn at November 16, 2008 04:09 PM (QQLml)
Heaven, thy name is Bacon Apple Pie
A few weeks ago Instapundit posted an item about a bacon apple pie featured at Amazon's al dente blog. The pie, which was originally created and made by Eli, of the EliCooks blog, is a somewhat traditional apple pie, except for the bacon crumbles inside and the lattice top made of bacon.
Ba-con. Mmmmmmmm. Here at Not Exactly Rocket Science, bacon is our favorite food, hands down. Nothing beats bacon for tastiness or indulgence. In fact, I prefer to eat bacon stuffed bacon with a side of bacon for breakfast if I can. Yum!
Bacon is Meat Candy.
And don't tell me about the cholesterol and all that. I know that. That's why I only actually eat bacon every so often, and it is truly a special treat.
Anyway, as my birthday is coming up, and bacon is well and truly my favorite treat, I thought I'd give this one a shot in the hopes of coming up with some birthday non-cake sweets. I modified the original recipe a bit, as I don't have any Cinnamon Bacon or scotch in the house and we're not big apple/maple combo fans....(see the recipe at Eli Cooks)
Here's my version, based on Eli's recipe:
CTG's Happy Birthday Bacon Apple Pie
1 9 in pie crust (I ended up making 2 pies because I had enough filling left over, YMMV*) 4 strips bacon, cooked crispy (NOT burnt) and crumbled (I used the microwave) 5-7 medium to large tart apples, peeled, cored and sliced (I used Pink Ladies) 1/4 cup brown sugar 1/4 cup white sugar 1 tsp Pumpkin Pie Spice (the original calls for nutmeg and cloves separately, but PPS is nutmeg, mace, cloves, and cinnamon. WAY easier)** 1/2 tsp cinnamon ** 1/4 tsp vanilla extract 2 Tbsp plus 1 tsp cornstarch 2+ Tbsp Butter, in small chunks 6-12 slices bacon***, halved lengthwise (make sure you get some fat in each half!)
*Your Mileage May Vary
** PPS and cinnamon are pretty subjective tastes, add more or less depending on your preference. Taste an apple slice once everything is mixed and before adding to the crust.
*** you'll need 6-7 slices (12-14 halves) for the lattice of one pie, about 12 slices for 2 pies
Note from Eli: The quality of the bacon here matters. You want a bacon with a good flavor when fried and eaten alone, because that's almost what you have on top of the pie. I should also admit that I used store-bought pie crust. Honestly, I think the stuff you buy in rolls in the fridge case is almost as good as home made and a hell of a lot easier.
I concur. Save some time, buy a good pie crust. Trader Joes has a fine one.
Preheat the oven to 350 F. Spread the pie crust in a 9 in pie pan and leave about 1/2 inch overhanging edges. Sprinkle about 1/3 of the bacon crumbles on the bottom of the crust.
Peel (if desired), core, and slice the apples. Mix together the apple slices, remaining bacon crumbles, brown and white sugar, PPS, cinnamon, salt, vanilla, and cornstarch. Spread over the bacon in the pie crust. Break the butter into small chunks and place on the top of the apple mixture, spread evenly apart.
Butter plus bacon may be too heavy duty for some. You can leave this out altogether if it seems too fatty. But the pie has a tendency to be drier than most because of the lack of a true top crust, so the butter helps. If you like the butter, be sure to add enough. 2 Tbsp may be less than optimal for your pie.
Arrange the half-strips of bacon over the top of the pie crust in a lattice, then fold the edges of the pie crust over the bacon and crimp. This is crucial because the bacon will shrink as it cooks.
Another Note from Eli: The bacon lattice really doesn't want to stay tucked in around the edges of the pie. Be sure to include extra bacon sticking off the edge of the pie and tuck it down the inside of the crust to help mitigate this. Also, having a larger rim of pie dough to extend a bit further toward the center of the pie would probably help.
Place the pie tin on a cookie sheet and bake in the center of the oven for about 50-60 minutes, until the bacon on top is crisp, the crust is golden-brown and apple slices are tender. My two pies, on a dark cookie sheet, took about 55 minutes and were done perfectly. Again, YMMV*.
My yield was two pies, 6-8 slices each, from the above recipe. Try it warm with GOOD French Vanilla ice cream. You'll think you died and went to heaven.
Be sure you have enough bacon. One package wasn't enough for lattice for two pies, although the recipe made enough filling for two (or perhaps I had too many apples) but there should be plenty of slices in one package of bacon for just one pie.
Sorry for the lack of pix. The pie came out a bit ugly without enough lattice on this go-round. Maybe next time!
Posted by: That 1 Guy at November 09, 2008 06:23 AM (8l3lA)
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Frankly, when I saw this on my Twitter feed I thought I was hallucinating! I MUST make this; we're HUGE bacon peeps!
What brand of bacon did you use??
Posted by: pam at November 09, 2008 06:48 AM (l6NIn)
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Sounds fabulous!! And Happy Birthday - to you and to me.
Soon!
Posted by: Richmond at November 09, 2008 04:31 PM (M6+VC)
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Just because I've been a dedicated lurker, lo these many years, and I hate to see any pie besmirched by a crust from Big Food, I'll pass along the greatest pie crust recipe ever (my mom's, of course). It's so simple, even a guy can make it successfully.
Double crust pie
Ingredients:
2 C - Flour
1 tsp - Salt
1/2 C + 1 Tbsp - Vegetable Oil
1/4 C - Milk (Note: Use whole milk, skim or 2% will pretty much ruin it)
Single crust pie
Ingredients:
1 1/3 c. flour
1/2 tsp salt
1/3 c. + 1 Tbsp. Oil
3 Tbsp milk (see note above)
Mix ingredients until moist. For a two-crust pie, divide dough in half, roll between sheets of wax paper. Note: Handle dough as little as possible.
Oh, and Happy Birthday!
Posted by: Matt at November 10, 2008 06:22 AM (B/rH5)
You're here, you're queer, GET OVER YOURSELVES
For the record, I voted NO on Prop 8, folks.
Now that THAT's out of the way, let me get to my point. Last night's protest rallies in West Hollywood and elsewhere did NOTHING to help the No on 8 cause.
Sitting in a busy intersection, holding up traffic and waving signs from an election that's past now doesn't make people want to support you. It makes people think you are a bunch of whiny crybabies with nothing better to do than to hold them up in traffic. Which, as we LA folks ALL know, is shitty without protesters blocking up the main intersections.
So get over it. Wipe your tears. Get up and fight back. The RIGHT way. The SMART way. Don't make your opponents so upset that they resent you. That's no way to "win friends and influence people."
You looked like a bunch of sissies in front of a big bully last night. Seriously. Do you WANT to play to stereotypes? Do you think that's anyway to bring people to your cause? Sure it rallies people who agree with you, but the majority of Californians (at least according to the vote) probably thought it was pathetic and predictable from a "bunch of whiny sissies"...
You have plenty of recourse beyond crying in the street: go to court now, although I doubt you'll get far with that (for two reasons*), AND put it back on the ballot as soon as you can. And in the meantime, conduct yourselves so as to make people feel more favorable toward gay marriage outside of CA's two big urban centers.
I feel your pain. I know, it's really sad. In some cases, it's devastating, and I know you want to be able to cry and rage together, but YOU CAN NOT DO IT in the middle of the street. Sure, it's your right to peaceably assemble, and I'm proud that 99% of folks last night WERE peaceful, but it's just not a smart strategy.
Acceptance of gay relationships has always been an uphill battle, so in order to get this changed, the strategy has to be smart and focus on getting the opposition to see gay people as simply PEOPLE. Not whiny, childish, idiots. There's a lot of stereotype to get past. This kind of disruptive public display doesn't help.
From the MOMENT the polls closed on 11/4 and the first announcements showed 8 running behind, it was going to be a long and difficult campaign in the next election. But the goal, and what will END this endless cycle of "gay marriage propositions," should be acceptance and tolerance in general. By everyone. We should be working to help people come together across CA and the world.
Not just for or against one ballot proposal or another. Which it seems HAS been the strategy.
Wouldn't it be smarter (albeit harder, I admit) to work on people's thoughts and attitudes in a LONG TERM sense, rather than playing on their fears regarding their senses of self (e.g. only bigots vote yes on
. People will vote their conscience. Help them understand what they fear.
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** Two reasons (in my completely non-legal opinion) below the fold: more...
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So, I was talking to your favorite ex-roomie about how legally it could happen to overturn the results, and it was a pretty interesting discussion. The basic idea that Joe was saying is echoed in the SF Gate:
"The suit by San Francisco, Los Angeles and Santa Clara County argues that any measure allowing a majority of the public to take away minority rights violates principles of equality at the heart of the state Constitution."
So, the point is, even if the majority of the people vote to take away the rights of a minority, it can't happen because of the nature of constitution. (Something about, its not giving rights to someone, its taking away rights already afforded.) And we're talking about the CA constitution not the US. The states retain their own choice to whether they choose to contradict themselves or not...you know, that whole states' rights thing. And that's why we have the courts as a check.
I'm not sure if I'm cool with overturning the votes. I personally don't think we're going to see gay rights really come to fruition for at least another 5-10 years and that's being very optimistic. Just like we needed all the racists to fade away so the country could do something historic like it did a couple nights ago, we have to wait for the homophobes to disappear too. But I totally aqree that that feeding the stereotype doesn't help AT ALL. But people are reeling right now...give them a bit of time to recover.
Posted by: SBC at November 06, 2008 12:06 PM (dp4iL)
2People will vote their conscience. Help them understand what they fear.
First off, I'm not a CA resident and have no dog in the hunt. However, if I were in CA I would have voted "yes on 8."
Second, people did vote their conscience. To assume they did otherwise is unfair. To assume they voted in fear is also unfair. There are a lot of people opposed to gay marriage for whom it is a deeply moral and spiritual issue. Their consciences will not allow them to see gay marriage as OK. That is not bigotry, imho. It is not phobic, imho. It is just a simple difference of opinion on what is and is not the true definition of marriage.
Posted by: jen at November 06, 2008 12:07 PM (Jp+mD)
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that's exactly why I'm advocating a campaign that shows gay people as PEOPLE from here going forward. If you change people's minds, you WILL change their votes. Eventually.
Posted by: caltechgirl at November 06, 2008 12:11 PM (IfXtw)
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"That is not bigotry, imho. It is not phobic, imho. It is just a simple difference of opinion on what is and is not the true definition of marriage."
It's very hard for me not to look at as not phobia. I don't see how the state (not any churches) recognizes a marriage of two men or two women affects your spiritual and moral fibers. I don't understand how someone's religious convictions can be so weak that they cannot allow a secular entity recognize a gay couple because it has the same name as their partnership. I just can't see past this...to echo CTG, I see fear, not a solid conviction of religious ideas. Maybe this comes from the fact that I have a strong sense of faith in a religion that is not the dominant one in this society...maybe I'm just used to having more stronger faith than others and they're just afraid to flex that muscle further. But each time I try and step back to look at it, I see fear, inflexibility, and discrimination.
It was not long ago where society would have called my interracial marriage offensive to their spirituality and morality...and the country for the most part has gotten over it. For this reason alone, I can't idly let other people take away the rights of my friends.
Posted by: SBC at November 06, 2008 01:21 PM (dp4iL)
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For some reason, it just reminds me of this oldie from the Onion. http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28491
Posted by: Chalkie at November 06, 2008 02:05 PM (EZmj/)
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Good for you taking a stand. Hang tough - it's never pretty when civil/social change happens...
Posted by: Richmond at November 09, 2008 04:33 PM (M6+VC)
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SBC: "...we have to wait for the homophobes to disappear too"
Nice. Anyone who disagrees with you is a homophobe?
I would have supported gay marriage before, but seeing people acting like a bunch of petulant children has cost the movement MY vote. Grow up.
Posted by: bristlecone at November 10, 2008 06:10 AM (UCzh5)
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Dropping the term 'homophobia' in most discussion would be a start. There are a *lot* of people a) feel its not the govt's business what other people do in their bedrooms, b)don't wish gay people any ill,c)are willing to support civil unions of some sort but d) think it is 'wrong' or at least 'abnormal'-- for which latter position non-religious arguments can be made, e)don't buy the blanket form of the 'just made that way' argument (and think legal gay marriage would fully enable indoctrination by the public school on the issue), f) don't want a foundation of all societies, far back into prehistory, redefined so gay people can, by court order/fiat, be granted a sign of approval for their way of life by people who don't feel that way, and whom they failed to persuade.
Sorry, but gay is not the same thing as 'black', even in objective terms of evolution.
One particular gene gives immunity from malaria -- two copies of the same gene causes sickle cell anemia. The latter is collateral damage of the former -- and for the affected *individual* it is certainly not fine and dandy even if it is 'natural'. We can recognize the dysfunction of it w/o making any moral claim about the person. Another example -- some people are born blind -- do we feel the need to give them driver's licenses in the name of fairness? Or to redefine what a drivers license is so we could adopt the pretense that sighted and blind 'drivers' are the same?
Surely what might be termed 'behavioral sterility', precisely if it is involuntary, might be arguably considered a dysfunction and not within healthy variation?
People can have sincere, thoughtful arguments and disagreements without slurring the one side as 'homophobic' -- that paints their views and irrational hysteria and therefore not worht considering or engaging.
Big counter-productive mistake.
Posted by: newscaper at November 10, 2008 06:34 AM (t+F7R)
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To keep referring to those who voted for Prop. 8 as homophobic is neither constructive nor accurate and makes about as much sense as saying those who voted against Obama are racists.
Gay marriage is not viewed as a threat to traditional marriage. It is viewed as validating a lifestyle and a choice( see Anne Heche, Julie Cypher, et al) that a majority of people view as sinful.
Posted by: patrick at November 10, 2008 06:41 AM (ZxkIC)
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While you are correct that any constitution is what the people say it is (else consent of the governed is a myth), your voting rights analogy is erroneous. The U.S. Constitution never prohibited either women or blacks from voting. Guaranteeing suffrage did not contradict or repeal anything in the Constitution, other than curbing the states' latitude in determining suffrage.
Posted by: j.a.m. at November 10, 2008 07:10 AM (vapBJ)
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And then there was the "blame the blacks" crowd. White gays have a house full of dirty secrets. If you're gay you'll know.
Posted by: Jon at November 10, 2008 07:33 AM (zK8hO)
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If the gay marriages made between the State Supreme Court ruling and the election are still valid but marriage is between a man and a woman, then divorce can only be between a man and a woman.
Many of you guys and gals are going to regret getting mixed up with heterosexual sexual politics when you find there is no way to legally divorce. Having been married (heterosexually) three times, I don't see what the urge is.
As to the constitutional issues, a court proclaimed a "right" that was novel and by no means explicit and not recognized by the authors of the constitution nor by the general population. The voters corrected the judges with one method open to them - the initiative. The only other method of the voters expressing their legitimate power is by recall of the judges who voted for the decision and their replacement by judges who read the constitution the same way that the majority of voters do.
Posted by: Whitehall at November 10, 2008 08:30 AM (FCAIs)
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Sure.
However, this is a bad strategy.
It doesn't help one's political cause when one dismisses the other side's position as a mental problem. I'd suggest that those who can't put themselves in the place of the opposition should chill for a bit, and let others who can represent their side for a while.
Among other hobbies, I am a target shooter. Some of the rifles I use have been banned in California and elsewhere as "assault weapons," primarily because they look "scary." They don't function as machine guns (part of the definition of an actual military assault rifle), but their military underpinnings allow me to take advantage of tax-funded engineering that the military does (accurate rifles are expensive enough as it is). The problem is, they look like what our military uses currently, so it's easy to get support for "keeping them off our streets."
Now I know that a lot of this support is based on emotions and ignorance, since many supporters of such bans would bristle at bans on other firearms.
However, does it do any good to just write people off as emotional and ignorant, when they can vote?
Not all of us can empathize with the other side, or see the logic in our opposition. That's fine. Strategically, though, those of us who can't should try to find people who can, to help persuade.
Posted by: BarryD at November 10, 2008 09:32 AM (Zo3yX)
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There is an easy resolution for this. Have the state record civil unions only, for everybody. That actually is what the state does at this time.
It's really not the state's business to enter into a religious discussion. Survey after survey has shown that a majority of people are willing to grant gays the right to a civil union. In point of fact, whatever is recorded by the state IS a civil union governed by the laws of the state and NOT the laws of the relevant church.
The distinction is particularly clear in the cases of divorce, where the Catholic church refuses to recognize the dissolution of a civil union.
The word marriage carries strong religious connotations, and raises all kinds of issues which the various churches resolve in different ways.
So, let the states record civil unions, and leave the discussion of what constitutes a marriage to the individual congregations.
Posted by: Valerie at November 10, 2008 10:27 AM (qIfnY)
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Look I am a conservative raised (but no longer an active participant) in the Mormon church. I grew up in a time when "rolling F**s" was considered a fun way to pass a boring afternoon. I never participated and disapproved and I am ashamed now that I wasn't horrified. I am often uncomfortable in social situations with people I percieve as gay. (Who knows? "Gaydar" doesn't work for Mormons.) So I qualify by current definitions as being "homophobic".
On the other hand I don't oppose gay marriage. I know that orientation of all kinds doesn't "rub off". I have worked with gay people and found that toughness, focus, hard work and leadership can be added to all the stereotypes I learned as a child. Beyond that I deeply believe the government should stay out of the bedroom.
But I don't like the word 'homophobe'. It puts me in the same group as the "After we stone you, you're all going to hell and you're moving up the arrival of the anti-christ." In my view "homophobe" like "racist" is just a code word for "anybody who disagrees with me".
Besides I don't understand the wailing and gnashing of teeth. Have a little patience and historical perspective. Within living memory gay sailors were sent to Portsmouth for 20 years. This is an issue that will be won, it's just a matter of time. Especially in California, why not go for real change? "Hi my name is Josh. There are two men I call dad, Bill and Joe. Bill taught me how to throw a football. Joe taught me how to not look like a fool dancing. They have been together for 25 years (show modest tract house). I love Bill and Joe--and my girlfriend Shirley."
Posted by: William Kovacs at November 10, 2008 11:53 AM (F/98t)
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Look I am a conservative raised (but no longer an active participant) in the Mormon church. I grew up in a time when "rolling F**s" was considered a fun way to pass a boring afternoon. I never participated and disapproved and I am ashamed now that I wasn't horrified. I am often uncomfortable in social situations with people I percieve as gay. (Who knows? "Gaydar" doesn't work for Mormons.) So I qualify by current definitions as being "homophobic".
On the other hand I don't oppose gay marriage. I know that orientation of all kinds doesn't "rub off". I have worked with gay people and found that toughness, focus, hard work and leadership can be added to all the stereotypes I learned as a child. Beyond that I deeply believe the government should stay out of the bedroom.
But I don't like the word 'homophobe'. It puts me in the same group as the "After we stone you, you're all going to hell and you're moving up the arrival of the anti-christ." In my view "homophobe" like "racist" is just a code word for "anybody who disagrees with me".
Besides I don't understand the wailing and gnashing of teeth. Have a little patience and historical perspective. Within living memory gay sailors were sent to Portsmouth for 20 years. This is an issue that you will win, it's just a matter of time. Especially in California, why not go for real change? "Hi my name is Josh. There are two men I call dad, Bill and Joe. Bill taught me how to throw a football. Joe taught me how to not look like a fool dancing. They have been together for 25 years (show modest tract house. I love Bill and Joe--and my girlfriend Shirley."
Posted by: William Kovacs at November 10, 2008 11:54 AM (F/98t)
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Look I am a conservative raised (but no longer an active participant) in the Mormon church. I grew up in a time when "rolling F**s" was considered a fun way to pass a boring afternoon. I never participated and disapproved and I am ashamed now that I wasn't horrified. I am often uncomfortable in social situations with people I percieve as gay. (Who knows? "Gaydar" doesn't work for Mormons.) So I qualify by current definitions as being "homophobic".
On the other hand I don't oppose gay marriage. I know that orientation of all kinds doesn't "rub off". I have worked with gay people and found that toughness, focus, hard work and leadership can be added to all the stereotypes I learned as a child. Beyond that I deeply believe the government should stay out of the bedroom.
But I don't like the word 'homophobe'. It puts me in the same group as the "After we stone you, you're all going to hell and you're moving up the arrival of the anti-christ." In my view "homophobe" like "racist" is just a code word for "anybody who disagrees with me".
Besides I don't understand the wailing and gnashing of teeth. Have a little patience and historical perspective. Within living memory gay sailors were sent to Portsmouth for 20 years. This is an issue that will be won, it's just a matter of time. Especially in California, why not go for real change? "Hi my name is Josh. There are two men I call dad, Bill and Joe. Bill taught me how to throw a football. Joe taught me how to not look like a fool dancing. They have been together for 25 years (show modest tract house). I love Bill and Joe--and my girlfriend Shirley."
Posted by: Bill at November 10, 2008 11:57 AM (F/98t)
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"It's very hard for me not to look at as not phobia."
And it's very hard for me to see the 'phobia' charge as anything but an ad hominem attack deeply rooted in ignorance. Does either view tell us anything other than about where we are standing?
The problem with the whole 'phobia' charge is that I would have voted 'Yes' to prop 8. But explaining that with 'phobia' runs hard into the fact that I can sit down and eat dinner with a gay couple. I can work with a gay man. I can and have been friends with gay and lesbian people. Partly it's because I don't really see them as 'gay'. I see them as men who are having homosexual contact with each other.
If I couldn't be friends with everyone who did something I didn't approve of, I'd soon find myself striking the whole world off of my list of possible friends. My relationship to a gay man is similar to my relationship to a female friend who bounces from one overwrought serial relationship to another. I don't approve of that lifestyle either. But if anyone needs a friend that doesn't want to get in bed with them, it's someone like that, so what am I supposed to do?
There are some people out there just wierded out over the whole idea of homosexuality, but they hardly constitute the whole of the opposition to gay marriage. And for that matter, people who were wierded out by the whole concept don't necessarily support it once they stop being wierded out by it.
Really, you are going to have to deal with the fact that the majority of people who oppose gay marriage don't do so because they fear gays, but because they pity them. That's going to be alot harder of a position to overcome than fear, and it is going to require the gay community to do a number of things it currently finds totally heritical: stop being a community, stop claiming that you are gay because of genetics (or epigenetics if you aren't the gay equivalent of a flat earther), stop adhering to a sterotype, and generally stop acting as if your life was defined by your sexuality. In other words, you are going to have to stop acting like 'gays' and start acting like 'people'.
And even then, there is going to be a certain percentage that is still going to look at your behavior the same way they look at someone who is alcholic or addicted to drugs. That's not 'phobia' or even 'bigotry', and to be frank the whole ridiculous argument that you are gay because of epigenetics of some sort reinforces the whole idea that this is just disfunctional behavior.
Posted by: Celebrim at November 10, 2008 12:01 PM (yXo7J)
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you guys lost a long time ago. the villain, if you'd like to go and have a chat with him, is SF Mayor Gavin Newsome. when he decided to violate the law by issuing licenses to people who were by law prohibited from receiving them, he lit fire that is currently burning you. instead of using his bully pulpit to lobby for californians to change the law by vote, he cut them out of the discussion. how many of the people who voted against you were only there because they felt pushed there by the CA Supremes. how many would have gone the other way if they were asked first, and not simply slapped upside the face with a wet fish?
so we should ask ourselves who benefits. first, Newsome benefited by making sure that all those REALLY far leftists who voted for Matt Gonzalez, the wacky lefty Green party guy who got 47% to Newsome's 53%. for those who don't get it, that means that the guy who introduced gay marriage in the US was the conservative in the mayoral race in 2003!!! the second group who benefits is the people who run groups like Human Rights Campaign. see, if they were to actually succeed in getting citizens to vote for gay marriage, they would be out of a job. their attitude is, keep the gays in line by pissing off everyone else.
Posted by: Sean at November 10, 2008 12:14 PM (ayO6b)
20gay marriage is such a fundamental part of the California Constitution
Yeah, that would be why no one ever heard of the "right" before 4 judges decided to invent it, because it's a fundamental part of the Constitution.
In 1972, the CA Supreme Court claimed that the CA Constitution's protection against "cruel or unusual punishment" meant that the death penalty was unconstitutional. CA voters responded by passing a Constitutional Amendment saying that nothing in the Constitution forbade the death penalty. The CA SUpreme Court upheld that Amendment.
So, we have
1: Court squints really hard, and finds a "right" in the CA Constitution, for a small group (convicted murderers) that suits their personal preferences.
2: Voters say "you guys are full of it", and pass a Constitutional Amendment overturning the illegitimate decision.
3: Court defers to the will of The People.
BTW, just so we're clear here: being a "minority" doesn't give you more rights than being part of a majority. That would be an absurd negation of democracy.
Posted by: Greg Q at November 10, 2008 01:32 PM (87k2j)
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Wow, didn't realize there were so many responses to my comment. I'll try to take them one at a time.
bristlecone -- I'm sorry if I offended you by using that term. I honestly didn't realize it charged up people the way it did. And not everyone who disagrees with me is a homophobe -- there are plenty of people who believe that there should be no legal marriages in society or think there should only be civil unions, etc. that has nothing to do with treating a gay union differently in the eyes of the law than a straight one. But, I will say this -- if you're going to change your vote because of how other people act as opposed to what you believe in, you need to "Grow up" more than I do.
To the others, who combined a lot of the same points:
1) A reiteration of the apology for using the word homophobia...though I'm curious why no one is all getting upset with the word racist except for I think one. I wasn't meaning it as a slur, btu as a way to describe people who don't support the full integration of gay rights in society. But perhaps I can better describe it this way with some specific examples that have cropped up in my own life:
I think someone is racist when they work with people of all races, eat with them, socialize with them, but then turn to me and tell me that I really shouldn't marry outside my own race/culture.
I think someone is sexist if an employer highers more females because he feels like he can keep them in line easier.
I think someone is homophobic when they fear that the sanctity of their marriage is at risk by the STATE recognizing a gay marriage.
So for all of you don't fall into that last category, I would most likely not refer to you as homophobic. Someone mentioned that they thought the majority of people don't fear the sanctity of their own marriage, that makes me feel a lot better actually. But to those who think its sinful...why? And there are plenty of things that are sinful to a group of people that is legal under the law -- i.e., alcohol consumption, sex before marriage, birth control, working on the Sabbath, eating meat, etc. Just because something is sinful to you or people who share your belief, should we deny the rest of the population who doesn't?
2) Maybe you don't think gay is the same thing as black, but should the LAW think that? I'm ok with people feeling actually uneasy with gay activities, but I take issue with people who would take away rights that should be treated equally across the board. In fact, I know plenty of people who get visibly sick if you talk about gay sex, but they would never vote to take away their rights.
As for the blind argument -- the blind aren't given driver's licenses because they are physcially unable to perform a certain task. Please tell me who being gay makes on physically unable you to support and love another person the way a man and woman does in marriage. Or is about the sex in the end?
And just to let you know, homosexuality has been witnessed in almost 1500 species at this point.
3) I wasn't trying to make a strategy to convince people to support gay rights. I was talking they way I talk when I'm in CTG's home or office, wasn't trying to be politically correct and didn't even realize the word angered so many people. I will try to post more PC again and I'm sure you'll all call out CTG when she isn't writing PC either. And again, I'm sorry to offend the ones who posted, but I think there are "homophobes" - people who fear gays -- in society, and I do hope their views fade away like racism did over time. Again, I think this is going to take a lot more time than the gay community may wish it were like CTG said. Desensitization to the subject in a way. I actually think that a good chunk of society has become a lot more open than I would have though a decade ago.
Posted by: SBC at November 10, 2008 01:48 PM (oqS+F)
22) Maybe you don't think gay is the same thing as black, but should the LAW think that?
Well, let's see. We have a 14th Amendment to the Constitution that was passed to ban racial discrimination.
We don't have any amendments passed to ban discrimination based upon sexual orientation, and CA doesn't, either.
So yes, the law should treat "gay" differently than "black".
Posted by: Greg Q at November 10, 2008 02:26 PM (87k2j)
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My opposition to gay "marriage" is nuanced (heh).
I don't believe the government should be in the business of redefining words. That is Orwellian.
Marriage, as it is nearly universally understood, means the union of a man and a woman.
Why do gays want to co-opt the heterosexual's term? Gays need their own word/concept.
Can a group of people who form a "community" become married in the eyes of the law? Why not?
Where does the redefining end?
Posted by: mockmook at November 10, 2008 03:03 PM (kA365)
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Losers. Everyone thought the rally to block traffic was lame.
Posted by: left coast liberal at November 10, 2008 06:45 PM (yg49V)
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In re: "homophobia"
I think the problem people have with this term as opposed to "racist" or "sexist" is that "homophobia" means "fear of (gays)." Yes, I know that's not quite how it's meant anymore, but that's still how it's interpreted. If we could come up with some different term, that might help.
But as it is -- we're not "afraid" of them. So when we state our beliefs about the gay lifestyle or whatever and then get told "You're homophobic!" it makes us go "Huh?" Then we try to explain that we're not afraid, and get told again "You're homophobic!" You can also substitute in "full of hate" or "hateful" or "You hate me" or "You hate gays" in there as well.
But the thing is... we're not afraid, and we don't think we're hateful either... so being told that we are just makes us go "You're delusional!" And thus we have a very hard time giving your arguments the shrift they properly deserve.
As another poster stated: Stop acting like "gays" and start acting like "people who happen to be gay" and you'll win a lot more converts to your cause. Dropping "homophobic" and/or "full of hate" into every argument just isn't the way to do that.
I'm straight, but I think it's just as flattering if a guy tries to hit on me as if a woman does. I just tell them I'm not interested, same as I would for any woman who I'm not interested in.
If I lived in California, I don't know how I would have voted. I think the best actual solution would be the whole "government does civil unions, religions do marriages" dichotomy, and as such, I probably would have voted for the proposition simply to be in opposition of the redefinition of the word "marriage." But that'd really be my only reason. I don't care what you do in your bedroom or who you do it with, or what you call that person you do it with either.
Something many people don't know is that Salt Lake City actually has a "domestic partner" program for its employees. You can designate *anyone* as your "partner" -- be it a spouse, a relative, a friend, or whatever. Many gay people who work for the city thus have full benefits of a "civil union" right here in the heart of "Mormondom." As I recall it, the (Mormon-dominated) City Council unanimously approved the plan, and (to my knowledge) the church didn't make any statement one way or the other about it.
There was a bit of controversy about it for about 2 weeks. Nobody's cared since.
See how nicely that worked? Govt calls it "domestic partnership" instead of "marriage" and nobody cares. . . . . .
Posted by: JC at November 11, 2008 12:48 AM (kHvUx)
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Democracy sucks when your side loses. I guess if these celebtards don't pay their taxes it's ok for me too? No?
Posted by: Bandit at November 11, 2008 05:57 AM (/R+6i)
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Protesting at Mormon Temples ,calling Blacks the N-word because they supported Prop 8 by 70% margins...
Why don't you direct your ire at the religion that voted for Proposition 8 by a probably 100% margin....That's right: Muslims..What did you say?..I didn't hear you?....
No, you go after the soft target mild mannered Mormons...Totally gutless...
Posted by: sirpatrick at November 11, 2008 08:13 PM (ZxkIC)
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Let's get a few things out on the table:
Gay Marriage is an oxymoron. Marriage is and should be between a man and a woman. To protect the important institution of the family we should protect traditional marriage.
That's the Prop 8 pro side. Now you may disagree with this or agree with it (I stand on the agree side) ... BUT ...
There is NOTHING 'homophobic' or 'anti-gay' about the above statements. support for Prop 8 was NEVER a 'hate' thing, it was always a "Whats wrong with keeping marriage the way its been for 2000 years of civilization" thing. No hate, no 'phobia' just pro-family and pro-traditional-values.
Ad hominem is a well-known fallacy and the 'hate' charge on the pro Prop 8 side is PURE AD HOMINEM.
It is disgusting, insulting and beneath contempt for gay-activist extremists to be so violent, pissy and outrageous in calling anyone who happened to disagree on this hatemongers. oh, and the N-word stuff an the violence at Saddleback church sure showed class. not! THEY are the 'hatemongers' with such vile and personal attacks.
And to do it after the vote makes them out to be vile, violent, hateful and *impotent*.
Worst of all worlds. I THINK IT SHOWS TO MANY PEOPLE THAT THEY DID THE RIGHT THING IN SUPPORTING PROP 8. IF THE PEOPLE WANTING THIS ARE SO EXTREME, VIOLENT AND BIZARRE, ITS SURELY NOT THE RIGHT THING FOR OUR SOCIETY.
Posted by: Travis Monitor at November 11, 2008 09:54 PM (uuYgX)
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1) Even the Greeks who celebrated homosexuality confined marriage to a man and a woman. Marriage was for procreation and homosexual lovers were for recreation. And these homosexual relationships were long term committed relationships.
2) I'm willing to bet that a large portion of us who voted yes on prop 8 would be willing to vote in favor of civil unions, which already exists in many places. The gay community however insists on marriage. This is partly an effort to destroy conventional morality, partly an effort to force acceptance of a lifestyle. Many of us are willing to tolerate homosexual behavior without endorsing it. This is not good enough for homosexual activists.
3) Even if I was in favor of homosexual marriage I would have voted yes on Prop 8 because it was a "right" created by judicial fiat, directly opposed to the will of the people. There is no Constitutional right to homosexual marriage, in either the State or Federal Constitution.
4) It is not an issue of equal rights either. I have the right to marry a woman and cannot marry a man. Homosexuals have the right to marry a woman and cannot marry a man. That's the definition of equal.
5) If you allow homosexual marriage, by what possible standard can you deny polygamy? State interest? Morality? Majority opinion? Does anyone seriously think that Muslims, fundamentalist Mormons and hippie communes won't immediately start pressing for the rcognition of polygamy?
Posted by: gahrie at November 11, 2008 09:58 PM (4gHqM)
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"the second group who benefits is the people who run groups like Human Rights Campaign. see, if they were to actually succeed in getting citizens to vote for gay marriage, they would be out of a job. their attitude is, keep the gays in line by pissing off everyone else."
ROFLMAO! HRC are purely one of the liberal special interest group arms of the Democrat-liberal-establishment complex, designed not to advance any agenda except the electing of Democrats. Actually achieving the agenda would be a real bummer for them. gays need to stay on the plantation with the blacks, union members, welfare recipients and govt workers, or the whole 'system' breaks down!
Posted by: Travis Monitor at November 11, 2008 10:04 PM (uuYgX)
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"It's very hard for me not to look at as not phobia. I don't see how the state (not any churches) recognizes a marriage of two men or two women affects your spiritual and moral fibers."
You dont see it, but others do see how Govt recognition impacts societal mores. We know this from looking at how divorce and welfare laws impacted family structure and breakdown. And borken families are harder on kids, its well known. So concerns about what will happen to family structure when marriage is redefined are NOT irrational.
What is YOUR phobia with having some allowance and recognition for the more important role of man-woman-marriage-based families, over and above other family units?
Why are you afraid to recognize the importance of traditional family in the raising of children etc.? Or acknowledgement that this would be a legit concern?
Why cant you be open-minded enough to see the importance of marriage institution from the traditionalist POV, instead of ignoring their reasons and insisting that you can detect motivations of those with a difference POV? (hint: you cant)
Being "PRO-TRADITIONAL-MARRIAGE" is not necessarily "anti-gay".
Posted by: Travis Monitor at November 11, 2008 10:15 PM (uuYgX)
The Fresh Perspective of Morning
I went to sleep around midnight, after gorging myself on the scant hour of local returns coverage we got, courtesy of overzealous networks that wanted to rehash the historic events of yesterday.
On waking this morning I found myself very reflective. How am I going to respond to what happened yesterday. Instinctively, I reach for Pollyanna: everything will work out great! But I know better.
The truth is, I would like to spend the next four years nitpicking and slamming and treating Barack Obama with all of the disrespect that was lavished on George W Bush for the last 8 years, and for the same non-reasons. But I can't do that. The man IS the President-elect, and let's be honest, he ran a hell of a campaign. I'm not saying it wasn't dirty, or race-baiting (hell, all you have to do is turn on a TV and see a crying black person exalting about "we're" in the White House to know that), or that it was the best campaign ever. I'm just saying he did more, had a better strategy, and all around out-foxed the other guy and his people.
Last night's speeches were probably the best of the campaign, particularly McCain's heartfelt concession, which I thought was the ultimate in class.
President Bush's speech this morning was also thoughtful and classy, and it struck me as one of the best from him in a long time.
He and Senator McCain must be so relieved this morning. That it's over!
I honestly don't know what's going to happen. My own prediction is that the Democrats will soon be victims of their own success. With such large legislative majorities, they can't blame it on the Republican whipping boy anymore. Combine that with the deep divide in the party that began with ultra-liberal vs moderate democrats and grew over the race between Barry and Hillary. Which creates an opportunity for the GOP to remind people what they are all about, without the looming "spectre" of George Bush and Dick Cheney as the faces of the party.
The pendulum swings, and this time it has swung towards something entirely different and unknown. All of the TV talking heads made this point last night, a question I have raised before, as well: WHO is Barack Obama? What will his policies be? How will he lead this country? The campaign always focused on Obama the man, not Obama the leader. Even the most enlightened political insiders are unsure of what's next.
Which brings me to my last point. Listen, I appreciate that racism is a visceral thing for many blacks. That the memory of discrimination is palpable. But this isn't 1968. Racism isn't what you think. It does not exist the way that you remember. White people don't automatically see black folks as less. I've seen so many black people on TV saying that NOW (only NOW???) they were going to tell their children to dream big dreams. WHAT??? Why aren't you teaching your children to dream big dreams already? Why can't they succeed? Maybe because you're teaching them that they can't?
AUUUGH. It grates. That black folks are "proud to be an American again" that black children "now have a chance" GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELVES. This amazing country is a place where ANY child has the opportunity to become ANYTHING. Nowhere else do children born in poverty have the opportunity to rise to the heights of fortune and fame. And you take it for granted and piss it all away because you think, THINK, that someone will try to take it away from you because your keratocytes take up more melanin.
This ladies and gentlemen is the culture of victimhood. That because we've never had a black president, you couldn't let your children dream of being the president. How the fuck are we ever going to get there if we don't think of it first?
So I will congratulate Barry Obama. He won, seemingly fair and square. Sure, I could point out that the black dude won so nobody's bitching, but that would be counterproductive and petty. I will congratulate him, and at the same time let him know that we are all watching. And we will hold him to his promise to hear our voices. And we will hold him accountable.
Posted by: Two Dogs at November 05, 2008 10:25 AM (ZiMYt)
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If what Michelle was wearing last night is any hint of future-fashion, we're in for a bumpy ride. But I'm more concerned with his upcoming Supreme Court nominations, and expect to see the return of some very ugly policies like the Fairness Doctrine and another AWB. We're so screwed.
Posted by: DirtCrashr at November 05, 2008 10:32 AM (VNM5w)
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Excellent post CTG.
And I felt better after reading this today...
http://chizumatic.mee.nu/not_the_end_of_the_world
It is what it is...
Posted by: Richmond at November 05, 2008 10:42 AM (XW9e/)
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Excellent! You articulated so well what we were batting around here in the wee hours...
Posted by: Marie at November 05, 2008 11:10 AM (UunPp)
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awesome sam. well said -- especially the racism aspects. it grieves me to no end that 1/2 the country basically voted for socialism.
Posted by: kate at November 05, 2008 11:27 AM (Zq135)
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I have to echo something you said on this post...it drives me batty sometimes about how the African American community claims so much success because of Barack Obama's stunning campaign. I get a little annoyed because it was his white mother and white grandparents that raised him, and if I recall at the start of the primary, there were accusations that he wasn't "black" enough. It annoys me too.
As a person of color, its great to see this one wall shatter (though I disagree that systematic racism has been obliterated), and I actually do understand the whole "dreaming" thing with the kids. It's not so much that they couldn't let their children dream about reaching the highest office in the land...it's more about not tempering it with realism. Let's face it -- the exceptional break the walls for the rest of us, and sometimes they can't do it because of where society is at the time. I think of it being akin to parents talking to their kids about being actors. Yeah, sure you could become a huge actor/actress, but you know, you probably should have a fall back degree or job because it doesn't really happen and you shouldn't expect it (seriously, how many non-gorgeous actresses are successful on the big screen). At least when *I* read about it, that's what I think. Sure, things are possible but now there is some empirical evidence. I don't like the culture of victimhood either but when I step back and look at the big picture, this is what I'm seeing.
But I didn't vote for Obama twice (primary and general) because he's black or because he would break racial walls. I voted for him because he is closer aligned to my value system than the other candidates...and, and I'll admit this: I voted for him because he was an intellectual. I want someone *very* smart (not just above average) in the office...I want someone who will bring in other smart people and listen to opposing opinions before he makes decisions as opposed to only bringing in your friends or people who share your own values. I am freaking giddy about this actually. And maybe some people didn't think he was that smart...and I don't know if I would have said he was two years ago...but he is the only man to beat the Clinton machine AND the RNC. That takes balls and brains. Call me elitist, I don't care.
In summary: Anyone who says I voted for Obama-Biden because of race will get a serious tongue lashing from me.
And mind you, I am waiting for my party to fuck it up royally. They always do. I'm just hoping it will take a little longer this time. I just want him to keep it in his pants...
(BTW, why do you refer to him Barry? Not just in this post, but in others. Even if that is what his family and friends called him, it's not like you're his close friend. I would seriously be upset with you if you referred to me by something other than my professional name in public...not that I think you even know my family name, but nonetheless, I would be very pissy. Then again, I didn't like the media referring to Senator Clinton as Hillary either, so maybe it just means more to me.)
Posted by: SBC at November 05, 2008 12:52 PM (5S9Yt)
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Well, President Barry is better than President YoMama for sure!
But I'm find it interesting that you think by him using his full name was more politically expedient than Barry and his mother's maiden name.
I wonder how much the Barry thing affected him growing up. You know, when we moved from Jersey City to SJ when I was younger, my sister had to take this Americanized abbreviation of her name. She didn't want to, but the teachers refused to learn her name and it just stuck. So for years she wasn't called by her professional name...and that's how most people knew her as growing up. But she HATED it. In fact, when she went to Caltech, she made it a point that everyone call her by her full name. To my understanding, when Obama really entered the professional field, he embraced his full name like my sister.
I, on the other hand during the move, in the second grade had audacity to not let my teachers off the hook. Apparently, I said something on the first day to extent of, "I will teach you to say my name right until you learn it." And every year, I had to go through the same thing, "it would just be easier" or "well we could shorten it up"...by the time I was in HS I really was just so angry about the issue that they backed down within 30s. But I am truly unique to have developed this at such a young age. Most other people I know with similar issues just took whatever American bastardization of the name that school kids or teachers made and they seemed to resent it.
So either way, I guess the name thing is a bit important to me. I want people to recognize me fully so I try really hard to recognize them fully...you know actually referring to the Chinese by their Chinese name instead of their American one. ::shrug:: It's one of my things I realize...
So, is your cousin seriously thinking about running for office or was that just an example you were giving?
Posted by: SBC at November 05, 2008 02:58 PM (5S9Yt)
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Hmmm... Here I thought that Bill Clinton was the first black president.
Great post, CTG.
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My sentiments exactly. Of course, I took all of four lines to say it so it didn't sound nearly as thoughtful or eloquent as yours.
Posted by: Lauren at November 05, 2008 03:25 PM (Pt1kf)
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SBC,
Thank you for giving me another perspective to look at.
Posted by: Lauren at November 05, 2008 03:27 PM (Pt1kf)
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I think that electing BHO has now taken racism, as an excuse to fail, off the board. "The Man" isn't holding anyone down now. He isn't going to pay off your mortgage either. The honeymoon will be short.
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Posted by: Hazel Jones at November 05, 2008 10:40 PM (XY940)
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Note that I have gone by Joseph at work and school for the past five years, so much so that (1) I actually find it weird to sign off emails and be referred to as Joe now, and (2) I get cranky when ppl at work suddenly start calling me Joe despite what I write in my email.
Similarly -- "Billy" Clinton? "Ricky" Nixon? "Johnnie" Kennedy? Hm, well there was Jimmy Carter to be sure, and there's a case for Ronnie Reagan, but by and large Prez candidates go for the more 'serious', professional-sounding version of their name. And do NOT tell me the conservatives and others wouldn't have accused him of running away from his 'true' self (and lent credence to the 'secret Muslim' bullcrap) if he'd insisted on being billed as Barry. Indeed, I think it was a combo of the professional full name and the preemptive 'yeah, it's Barack' than the 'hey liberals who will already like voting for a stable black man, I'm multi cultural too!'
Posted by: Joe at November 06, 2008 09:54 AM (wKdud)
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actually, it was Bill Clinton (rather than William) and Dick Nixon (rather than Richard). Eisenhower preferred "Ike", Truman was Harry, and Ford was usually called "Jerry". Hell, LBJ preferred his initials, hence why we still call him that 40 years later.
So I don't see the hang up over Barry vs Barack.
But as I said to someone yesterday in meatspace, if it really is about a professional redirection, I'll happily drop the Barry thing. But I doubt it.
Posted by: caltechgirl at November 06, 2008 10:59 AM (IfXtw)
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Not to nitpick, because I really enjoyed your thoughtful and eloquent post, but he actually "distanced himself" from being called Barry when he went to Columbia - twenty years or more ago.
Came via Margi's place, and I just wanted to echo your last line. We're on common ground on at least one point: as an Obama supporter, I will be holding him accountable, too.
Posted by: Jennifer at November 06, 2008 06:41 PM (s7/kM)
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Jennifer, many thanks for the fyi on when he shifted to Barry! Any chance this is documented online, for confirmation? Eh, I bet it can be found via simple googling... but I'm just so *lazy*. :-)
And as an ostensibly unbiased journalist by training, I'm hoping the members of the media will also hold Obama, his admimistration, the Dems new and old, AND the Republicans all accountable as well. If I get me a proper j-job, I promise I will.
Posted by: Joe at November 07, 2008 08:03 AM (wKdud)
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It's in his books. Also covered in the first paragraph of this Newsweek article from March 2008.
Posted by: Jennifer at November 07, 2008 11:48 AM (1aLkV)
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Ooh, is that my ill-informed showing?
Thanks, Jennifer.
As for other presidents' names, I concede Ike and Harry, of course, but I'd split hairs saying Bill isn't as casual as Barry, LBJ certainly isn't a casual name, Ford wasn't elected POTUS, and the rest weren't elected under their more casually known first names. Even if you count Bill & Jerry, it's 12-6 in favor of formal since Teddy.
http://www.whitehouse.gov/history/presidents/chronological.html
Yay totally pointless statistics! :-D
Posted by: Joe at November 07, 2008 08:19 PM (JLqd9)
Posted by: Two Dogs at November 08, 2008 12:11 AM (6qN3R)
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Just took a quick glance Jennifer at the Newsweek article, and thanks for pointing it out. It actually does seem to echo a little bit of what my sister went through and since it seems like he changed it in Columbia, well before he was a politicians, its not about him changing it 2 or 4 years ago for political ambitions.
And CTG, its not a hangup -- I didn't mean to make it such a large part of the posting, I really was just curious why you kept on using it. As I said before, *I* probably have a thing about names, dealing with my own identity issues growing up in this society. I take names and titles pretty seriously and I make it a point to try and be respectful whenever I came (say always referring you to as Dr. G******** instead of your first name to your students). You can ask Joe, I never call our current president W, always his last name or full name or President Bush. If he's going by Barack Obama, I call him Barack Obama. If Bill Clinton is going by Bill Clinton as opposed to William, I'll call him that too (though I always say Richard Nixon instead of Dick). But again this is just ME, I personally find it an issue of respect, but by no means, meant it to be some hang up.
Posted by: SBC at November 08, 2008 08:48 AM (JLqd9)
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well, after that campaign he'll have to EARN my respect.
Posted by: caltechgirl at November 08, 2008 09:37 PM (IfXtw)
Posted by: Marie at November 05, 2008 06:07 AM (UunPp)
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It was fun watching the joy last night, tho, you have to admit. Pres. Obamna seems a serious man--I have to believe he'll be a moderating force on the Pelosis, etc.
A black President named Obama. That sound you hear in the distance is so many of our deceased relatives spinning and spinning!
I voted for McCain, but it was a great night last night to be an American.
Posted by: Tony Iovino at November 05, 2008 06:26 AM (d6ZM8)
Well, it's over for me anyway. As of 7:15 this morning.
Our polling place is at a little church a block or so away, and we thought the lines would be small this morning, so we decided to chance it.
Arriving at just before 6:45, this is what we found:
The mother and daughter directly in front of us (blue and black jacket, respectively) were perusing the Democrat Voter Guide, which irked the crap out of my husband. He kept muttering "think for yourself!" and "know what you're voting for" under his breath...
According to the numbers on our ballot stubs we were #29 and #30 to vote at our precinct. It took about 30 minutes to get to the door, where the check in was, and to get through the ballot. Then I had to wait because the lady in front of me (in the blue jacket, above) voted twice on Prop 10, so she had to decide whether to re-vote a new ballot, or just ask the computer to accept her ballot and NOT count her Prop 10 votes (she decided for the latter).... In any case, we were both done by 7:20, and despite the worst morning traffic I've ever seen in The 'Dena (two Sigalerts on the 210 so everyone was on the streets!), I got hubby to school on time and I am back home prepping for my lecture this afternoon. Or at least I will be as soon as I finish this post and get my bagel out of the toaster.
Go vote. It doesn't matter who or what you vote for, as long as you vote your conscience. I did.
Head in my hands, Heart on my Sleeve
I've been thinking a lot about Prop 8. It's the only ballot measure I haven't yet decided on.
My head tells me to vote yes and tell activist liberal judges to get a fucking clue. That CA's registered Domestic Partnership law provides the same rights to gay couples who register as marriage does to straight couples. That marriage is a construct not of the state, but of the church, and really the RDP law should apply to gays and straights both as a "civil union," a mere contract. That "marriage" is solemnized and consecrated by your belief system, whatever that is, and abides by those rules. God's rules. Or gods' rules. Whatever you believe. Not the state's rules.
I worry about the consequences for churches and ministers who are against marrying gay couples, for whatever reason. Will they be breaking the law if they refuse? Will they lose their 501 status? Will anyone be allowed to believe that homosexuality is wrong or state that belief? It may be bigoted, but in this country, people have a right to believe as they choose. We call it Freedom of Religion.
And you know, I just am so tired of all the in-your-faceness of the Prop 8 fight. I just want to vote no to say HA! Keep your "whether you like it or not" and all your Gay PDA on TV (for the record, all PDA on TV makes me sick, we've just seen a lot of it with this Prop 8 thing). It makes me want to be perverse and give all the Prop 8 opponents the finger.
But my heart tells me differently.
As I've mentioned many times on this blog, one of my dearest friends is gay, and he married his partner about 5 years ago in one of the most beautiful, heartfelt weddings I have ever seen. I was proud to be a "bridesmaid" and stand up for them, and I would do it again in a heartbeat. I remember feeling so clearly the love between them, and seeing how precious they were to each other. I could never take away from them the things that DH and I have, the comfort of knowing we are each other's first and last resort, that we make each other's life and death decisions, that we share the rights and responsibilities of our life together for better and for worse.
I received this today, via email. I hope my friend won't mind me sharing it with you in part, and with the names redacted, of course.
Hi Everyone,
As you know, we're barely a day away from the most historic election of our time. But as you are also probably well aware, there's a lot more at stake than the Presidency.
Here in California, one of the most important -- and one of the closest -- issues you can vote on is Prop 8.
Prop 8 seeks to eliminate fundamental rights for one group of people. If passed, Prop 8 would take away something very close to Nick and me: our marriage. I trust you agree that eliminating fundamental rights -- from anyone -- is unfair and wrong.
...
If you want to help but don't have much time, here's something simple you can do:
The simplest thing you can do is to call everyone you know when you have a few free minutes on Tuesday and bug them to go vote if they haven't. Even if they say in advance that they'll vote, call them on Election Day to make sure they've voted. Even if it looks like the Presidential contest is over nationally by 5 or 6 pm our time, it's still critical that everyone goes to the polls to vote NO on 8. And even if it's raining, and even if the lines are long ... that shouldn't matter.
Finally, please modify and pass along this e-mail to everyone you know in California.
(And, no, you don't need to call N or me on Election Day -- we have both already voted by absentee ballot.)
Thanks so much for all your support!
Love, A (& N)
I just can't tell them no. As much as I think this whole issue is screwed up and proceeding ass-backwards and I want to vote yes to make a political point, I don't think I can look my friend in the eye and tell him I voted to take away the marriage that means so much to him in favor of a lousy, meaningless contract. Unless you give me one of those lousy, meaningless contracts, too.
So this girl's in an unfamiliar quandry: head or heart? I can't tell which makes more sense.
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I think it comes down to this: if you believe that your gay friend's marriage should be treated the same as your own (and marriage, not some partnership that is treated as something that has rights but still not a marriage), then you should vote no. I really feel, and these are my opinions, that a vote yes is equivalent to someone coming to my wedding but doing something to make my interracial marriage invalid.
There was a point in California law where interracial marriages were actually illegal -- Armenians couldn't even buy homes in some places. I know you don't like judicial activism, but some activism is necessary to help society progress. Without it we wouldn't have had the civil rights movement for sure. I think this is actually the right way to go about bringing gay rights on a national level. I don't think its right to do something on a national level until at least a quarter of the states have really taken a good hard look at the issue. California should be at the forefront of this because of our unique diverse population.
You express annoyance for the No on Prop 8 people but aren't you just annoyed with the Yes on Prop 8 people? The blatant exploitation of children is just damned noxious to me.
To quote my boss -- "it is what it is." It's the "elimination of rights for same sex couples." It's not about telling churches what to do - Catholic churches can refuse to marry some people if they are not really practicing Catholics...same with Jewish temples. It's a scare tactic used by people who only want traditional marriage. There are going to be some idiots who may try sh*t but then it'll go to the courts and we'll take care of that as it comes.
I hope you vote No and I hope I helped a little.
Posted by: SBC at November 03, 2008 03:16 PM (JLqd9)
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It's tough - more than tough. It feels unfair. And frankly - we believe in fairness whether it be in the retrospect of skin color, sexual persuasion, socio economic class, or whatever...
Laws should be "fair". But I *do* have issues with the the word "marriage" within a social or church philosophy being dictated by law.
I DON'T believe that I am any less married in God's eyes because I was married by a judge in a chapel and NOT in the Catholic Church (or any other).
I do believe that people in a committed relationship should be recognized (if they so choose) - the same as me - as "married". With all of the benefits and detriments (hello - painful, complicated dissolution of said relationship) and legal ramifications (as in decisions concerning medical care or disbursement of estates) as *I* am.
I have trouble with labeling the whole deal "marriage" - because that indicates a relationship recognized by the church and GOD.
"Civil Union" works for me - Meaning equal rights under the law for committed couples regardless of hetero sexual palimony or same sex union - and a few of the gay people who are in my life (see Wald Law Blog) - they are trying to find a balance too.
It's tough.
Something will make it right - I am just not yet sure that a definition of "marraige" is it... WE shall see...
Posted by: Richmonds at November 03, 2008 06:22 PM (RCeqK)
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Don't go to the dark side! This is not about what feels good, it's about what is best for the future of our nation. Vote Yes on 8!
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Vote no! Vote no!
Parenthetically, you should see the emails that flew back and forth on this between my dad and my sister...
Posted by: ZTZCheese at November 03, 2008 10:15 PM (Iw+8+)
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CTG, you know the right thing to do.
If the proposition were about activist judges defining marriage, it would be the "Judges Don't Define Marriage" Proposition.
But that's not what it's about. It's about defining marriage. Restricting it, by law. Is this the right way of doing it?
A vote against 8 doesn't mean you favor activist judiciary, or even marriage for LGBT -- it can also mean you simply feel that the proposition as written is too flawed to vote for. It hurts too many people. I myself voted against a proposition in the previous election that ostensibly stood for things I believed in, but it would not have accomplished those things, not in the right way.
You know what's right. Good luck tomorrow.
Posted by: Joe at November 03, 2008 10:25 PM (JLqd9)
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Definitely a rock and a hard place. I too have a dear friend who is a lesbian. And was there when she stepped out of that closet. We had a dear friend commit suicide because we *believe* he was hiding his homosexuality. These are people we love, and would never choose to hamper or harm them. It is a struggle on so many levels.
Posted by: Stacy at November 04, 2008 12:15 PM (92p8H)
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I weighed it out between my flesh and my spirit. I chose to vote by my spirit because in the end, it is what matters most to me.
As long as YOU can live with your choice, that is all that matters.
Posted by: Lauren at November 04, 2008 09:13 PM (Pt1kf)
Four years (and over 300,000 hits!) ago today, after being dragged kicking and screaming, I opened up shop here at Not Exactly Rocket Science.
I'd been commenting and quasi-blogging for a couple of years by then, and a bunch of people were constantly on my case to just shut up on their bandwidth and get my own.
So I did. Obligatory sucky first post here. Yeah, I know it says 10/30, but trust me, it was 10/29 when I posted it. Blogger sucks.
And this is the result. The world has changed a lot over the last for years, and so has my life, but the blog has been a real constant.
So thanks, y'all for making my life a lot more interesting and putting up with me virtually for the past 4 years!
Dear African American "Community Leaders",
You are all a bunch of fucking hypocrites. That's right. I said hypocrites. I call BS on you and, as they say in South Park, I declare shenanigans!
Some idiot with bad taste and a worse sense of humor hangs a Sarah Palin doll from a noose and you don't respond? Dare I even suggest that you think it's funny because she's running against your Obamessiah?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but about 10 years ago you all were so mad about a BEAR in a noose that you forced USC to abandon a decades old student tradition of hanging bruins (the UCLA mascot) from tiny nooses. LITTLE TINY TEDDY BEARS. In UCLA shirts. You said it was racist. You said that it was reminiscent of the lynching of black men by the KKK. You said you were offended. So we stopped hanging TEDDY BEARS.
I get your point, though. Hanging people is not a joke. It's MURDER. And that's never funny.
And now, these people have NOT A BEAR, but a life-size mannequin of a woman, dressed as Sarah Palin, hanging from a noose in their yard and you say not one word. Why?
I'll bet my house that if it was Barry Obama swinging from the yardarm you'd have had 3 press conferences already, and called the police out to arrest these homeowners for a hate crime. Perhaps for racial intimidation.
And yet you say nothing about this. I'm offended by it, and I'm clearly not black. Not as a conservative, or because I am a woman, but because I think it's disgusting. Hanging a bear, or a skeleton, or something clearly not representing a particular person is one thing, demonstrating by your Halloween display that you wish someone a painful death is quite another.
And I still want to hear your outrage. If you all could muster that kind of vitriol for a few teddy bears, I bet you can come out and preach it about this Sarah Palin mannequin.
I'll be sure to be there to support you when you do.
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Of course they won't say anything. Just like that display someone had of McCain doing the KKK thing chasing BO. They are all hypocrites.
BTW, I love it when you're so mad you curse.
Posted by: Stacy at October 27, 2008 08:16 AM (92p8H)
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I can't believe the outrageous crap these idiots have been pulling!
I'll be sooo glad when this election is over... except when I said that to my husband this morning he said: "even when it's over it won't be over".
Spoilsport.
Posted by: pam at October 27, 2008 08:18 AM (l6NIn)
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Just down the road from me a guy had a ghost hanging from a tree with Obama printed on it; everyone was up in arms, wanting to burn the racist's house, etc etc...good gawd people, get a grip! I agree, if this had been a black, male mannequin there would have been hell to pay, I bet!
Posted by: Michele at October 27, 2008 08:27 AM (Jplxy)
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This is so disgusting that I am sick to my stomach. It's absolute BS to say its ok because its Halloween. Absolute BS. I'm sure people on both sides think this is disgusting.
Posted by: SBC at October 27, 2008 09:10 AM (5s6Ga)
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Totally wrong. Only a fool can defend murdering and lynching effigies.
Posted by: Joe C. at October 27, 2008 09:53 AM (wKdud)
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OMG, I am totally in love with your blog. Love your writing style. I must come back.
I agree with you on this post, what is wrong with people? I have no answers, only further questions. It makes me sick.
Posted by: Leslie at October 27, 2008 03:30 PM (ovRlN)
Posted by: Lauren at October 27, 2008 04:17 PM (Pt1kf)
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He may not be your favorite person, but Keith Olbermann just named this idiot who made the effigy art the "Worst Person in the World" today. He repudiated it his show which I'm sure you can see eventually up.
Posted by: SBC at October 27, 2008 06:03 PM (JLqd9)
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It's sick and disgusting to the nth degree, but not at all surprising. These idiots are so bigoted, racist, and downright stupid, I'm never surprised by how low they will stoop in pursuit of their goal.
No matter which candidate it had been - yes even Obama or Biden hung in effigy - it's wrong. It's not art and it's not cute. We don't see this being done by the other side and if it were done, it would be roundly condemned.
But at least we know the "enemy". We have seen what they accept without a blink. Remember this, know what you're fighting so you are never taken off guard or think they have anything resembling "feelings".
Posted by: Teresa at October 28, 2008 03:50 PM (mMa3+)
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I think between the attack hoax in Pittsburgh and the recent ATF bust of skinheads plotting to assasinate Obama and a number of African Americans, there's plenty of crap coming from the conservative side too. These are the outliers that tarnish the political process that makes this country great.
But pray tell, please inform me of who the "enemy" is. And how should a good American respond to such "enemies." Just curious. Really.
Posted by: SBC at October 28, 2008 08:03 PM (JLqd9)
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I totally agree - it's an offensive display.
How is it that women somehow escaped the "hate crimes" definition? I'm sure that many violent crimes are committed against women because someone hated their gender and wanted to exert control.
Thar she blows! (now with Profanity!)
Finally, I rant on the election (in stream of consciousness at 1am, so please excuse the grammar and typos and occasional lack of punctuation):
First up, John McCain. I'm going to set aside any personality issues I have with him, and even issues with why he is the candidate, and grant, up front, that he is the candidate for the republicans. He's tough, smart, clearly qualified for the job, and probably ready for it. He's also plenty healthy or he wouldn't be jumping around the country like a 12 year old, so fuck off to all you twits who say that he can't live out the term. I really have little else to say about John, except that I can't believe his temper hasn't got the better of him yet, and I wish we had a better candidate, rather than the default guy (Fred! I miss you! You would have stuck it to Obama every chance you got instead of smiling like a pansy!)
Which brings me to Sarah Palin. You have all underestimated her. All of you naysayers, Republicans and Democrats alike. The woman is NOT stupid. I repeat, NOT STUPID. She is very bright, and like many clearly bright people, is counting on her intelligence to pull her through an experience she was NOT prepared for. What you see is a classy chick trying to hold up her end of the bargain and do the job she KNOWS she can do as VP, even though maybe she wasn't clear on what this campaign would be like.
I have no doubt that she would be a good VP, and even, God forbid, a good President. There's nothing wrong with her that can't be said of the 3 dudes on the tickets. And seriously, all this hoohah over $150,000 for clothes and makeup? Are you kidding me? How much did Hillary or Barry spend on the same things? I know he wears makeup; I can see it on the TV. And how much were Biden's teeth and hairplugs? I mean come ON. If you're going there, I can too.
How fucking scared are the Democrats when all they can pull on her is that her 17 year old daughter is pregnant (but remember that according to them this is pregnancy #2 and she delivered Trig while knocked up with this baby) and her supporters spent a lot of money so she could look nice. Give me a motherfucking break. What about Obama and Bill Ayers? What about the ex- Fannie Mae CEO that ran Fannie into the ground and left in disgrace (but $90 mil RICHER) before Obama asked him for advice. Can we please put this in perspective?
Why does she scare you people so? Is it because you can't remember how to deal with people like the Palins? Or maybe that she's smarter than you? Or (gasp) that voters see her as real, approachable, and sensible in the ways that your candidate is not? And we're talking about the potential VP here, not the POTUS candidate.
Honestly, if Sarah Palin was really as much of a non-entity, in that milquetoast-vanilla-Dan Quayle way, as the liberals are foaming at the mouth to portray her, would it be WORTH all the effort? I mean let's face it. Dan Quayle was a fucking farce. A joke. From DAY 1. DAY 1. And Bush, Sr. knew it. But he got away with it because Dukakis was a joke as a candidate too. Sarah Palin is no joke.
Verily, I am amused at the sheer panic, the slavering, the need to get a dig in at her. To make people feel bad about supporting her. Why do that if she's Dan Quayle all over again? Seriously, if she's a joke just let her shoot herself in the foot.
Let's step over to another Sarah issue: Trooper-gate. This might have some teeth, and could be a real issue, but you notice no one in the media is pushing this very hard, even though hearings are taking place. Why? Because there is NO there there. The person who asked for the initial inquiry isn't even the guy who was fired. It's the sour grapes guy who lost to Sarah in the gubernatorial election. Don't believe me? Do the Google search yourself. Look at the articles in the Anchorage paper and the verified supporting documents posted all over the internet. The evidence is all out there.
I think the real problem with Sarah Palin is that a lot of smart people like to think they succeeded in life because they are smart, and they automatically assume that all the fuck-ups in this world are the not-smart ones. People like President Bush, and Sarah Palin, who present themselves to the world as less than uber-intelligent, and succeed ANYWAY, threaten that world view.
I can see some of you squirming. I know you. I went to school with you. I work with you. Hell, I AM you from time to time. I know what I am talking about and there's no denying it. I freely admit to having an occasional elitist moment. Smart people often have a certain world view about intelligence and ignorance: tolerance and acceptance is intelligent, rejection and exception are not; Environmentalism is intelligent, questioning or denying global warming is ignorant; Getting a college education is intelligent, going without shows your ignorance.... I could go on and on. Smart people are (or at least THINK they are) informed and tolerant, they want to give back and save the world and make everybody equal. And if you don't agree with those simple, wonderful things, you're ignorant, too.
Well, then kiss my ignorant PhD-covered ass. Because I don't agree.
People are amazing, and intelligent without a college degree or a fancy job or shared beliefs. That's the whole principle of Academic Freedom. We learn from each other by sharing our diverse ideas. Not by censoring, or dismissing out of hand the ones we think are ignorant. Ignorance is bliss after all. And the paradigm shifts born of ignorance have generally changed our world for the better.
Sarah Palin and George Bush clearly don't fit the paradigm. And well, we fear that which we do not understand.
And another thing about this election, a question I am DYING to ask my students (but which would reveal my own political leanings, something I am careful NOT to do. They pay me to teach Biology, not politics), or any democratic voter, is WHY do people love Barry Obama so much? Do you know what he stands for? Or are you only voting for him because of his position on the War? Do you even understand the implications of THAT? Are you voting for him simply because he's the Democrat? Because he's not George Bush? What did Bush do to you anyway? Do you understand what that means (in a real sense, not linguistically)? Do you even know what the Republican platform says? Hell, what the Democratic platform says? When Obama says change, what does that mean to you? How do you think that will work? What can he change, how will that help you? How exactly has Obama demonstrated to you by his actions that he is ready to be President?
As an informed voter, I can answer all of those questions with regard to why I am voting for McCain. I would guess many McCain supporters can, but that may be a personal bias. what the fuck, though, it's my blog, my opinion.
I would also guess that many Obama supporters can NOT.
Look, I think it's great Obama is running. I love that our country has become so colorblind that any person of color could run for any office. And yet, Obama's supporters focus on the negative: that racism is the only reason keeping people from voting for him. Give me a fucking break. Could it be that we disagree with him? Are black conservatives racist, too, because they choose to vote for McCain? I figure it this way if Obama wins, no one can ever pull the race card again. I mean, is there any greater measure of how far we've come than to elect a black man as our President? I mean holy shit, a black man and a woman running against each other! (yeah, yeah, I know, but you can excuse the conflation of the tickets to make my point)
I wish people wouldn't bring up race. We'll always have racism until we stop talking about it. My words included.
I wish I understood people's motivations better. Hence the questions, above. Maybe then I wouldn't be so angry at the political discourse that seems so full of invective. More this year than I can ever remember. Except for one occasion when I saw a young lady wearing a t-shirt that still haunts me. But that's a rant for another post on why the electoral college is important.
I have a number of friends who are voting for Obama. I am proud that some of them can actually answer the questions I have posed, and I respect them for making an informed decision, and politely disagree. I just wonder what percentage of voters on both sides actually can.
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I love reading what the smart girl has to say. Bravo!!!
Posted by: Greta Perry at October 23, 2008 03:20 AM (Xl4tG)
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http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/015/720xgfha.asp
Loathing Sarah Palin
Months Hate of feminists.
by Joseph Epstein
10/27/2008, Volume 014, Issue 07
The liberal women I know--and most of the women I seem to know are liberal--loathe Sarah Palin. They don't merely dislike her, the way one tends to dislike politicians whose views are not one's own, they actively detest her. When her name comes up--and it is they who tend to bring it up--their complexions take on a slightly purplish tinge, their eyes cross in rage. "Moron" is their most frequently used noun, though "idiot" comes up a fair number of times; "that woman" is yet another choice. A wide variety of adjectives, differing only slightly in their violence, usually precede these epithets.
Liberal men don't show the same fervent distaste for Governor Palin. They are more likely to say she doesn't come close to being qualified for the job of vice president and is frightening to contemplate as president. They might add that his choice of Sarah Palin is a serious sign of John McCain's flawed judgment, or of his political opportunism. The standard phrase "a heartbeat away" may come up. But then they let it go. They don't take Sarah Palin so personally, so passionately, as their liberal female counterparts do; the element of anger isn't there.
During his presidential campaign Mike Huckabee expressed a set of opinions not strikingly different from Sarah Palin's, yet my guess is that if he were John McCain's running mate these same women would not despise him with the same vehemence they do Sarah Palin. Some of this is due to snobbery, some possibly to envy. Governor Palin is, after all, a good-looking woman with what appears to be a happy family life who has achieved a great deal in a relatively brief time. But above all Sarah Palin's opinions, because they are held by her, a woman, suggest betrayal.
One might think that liberal women would have some admiration for Governor Palin's appearing to have solved the working mother problem that bedevils most contemporary American women. She is very feminine yet doesn't regard herself as a victim, and seems to be entirely at ease with men. Here is a woman raising five children who is able not only to have an active hand in the life of her community but actually win the highest political office in her state. As the governor of Alaska, moreover, she took on the corrupt elements in her own party, which requires courage of a kind liberated women especially, one would think, might admire.
Perhaps Sarah Palin's having a pregnant teenage daughter permits these same women to feel that she hasn't really solved the working mother problem after all. Yet teenage pregnancy is something that anyone who has a daughter or a granddaughter lives in terror of, for it can happen, as they say, in the best of families. Yet Sarah Palin seems to be handling this, too, with a measure of dignified calm and tolerance that most of us, in similar circumstances, probably couldn't bring to it. But she gets no credit for this either, at least not from the women I know who so relentlessly contemn her.
Strongly liberal women get most agitated over the issue--though of course to them it is no issue but a long since resolved matter--of abortion. Abortion, to be sure, is the great third-rail subject in American politics. But when a male politician is against abortion, these women can write that off as the ignorance of a standard politician, if not himself a Christian fundamentalist, then another Republican cynically going after the fundamentalist vote. A woman not in favor of abortion is something quite different.
And it is all the more strikingly different when the same woman not only holds this opinion on abortion but acts on it and knowingly bears a child with Down syndrome, a child that most liberal women would have thought reason required aborting. What else, after all, is abortion for?
A few months ago Vanity Fair ran an article about the discovery that the playwright Arthur Miller, with his third wife, the photographer Inge Morath, 40 or so years ago had a Down syndrome son. Miller promptly clapped the boy into an institution--according to the article, not a first class one either--and never saw the child again. Most people would have taken this for a heartless act, one should have thought, especially on the part of a man known for excoriating the putative cruelties of capitalism and the endless barbarities of his own country's governments, whether Democratic or Republican. Yet, so far as one can tell, Arthur Miller's treatment of his own child has not put the least dent in his reputation, while Sarah Palin's having, keeping, and loving her Down syndrome child is somehow, by the standard of the liberal woman of our day, not so secretly thought the act of an obviously backward and ignorant woman, an affront to womanhood. "Her greatest hypocrisy," proclaimed Wendy Doniger, one of the leading feminist lights at the University of Chicago, "is her pretense that she is a woman."
The daughter of a dear friend of mine used to say of her mother, "I sense her rage." Of course when the daughter said this, my friend's rage would only increase. Suggesting that liberal women feel rage over Sarah Palin is, similarly, likely only to enrage them all the more. But rage in their reaction to Governor Palin is emphatically what I do sense on the part of liberal women--that and delight in any attempt to humiliate her. (Tina Fey, take a bow, and, hey, let's watch that Katie Couric YouTube interview one more time!) I wonder if the women who loathe Sarah Palin with such intensity oughtn't perhaps to reexamine the source of their strongly illiberal feelings.
Joseph Epstein, a contributing editor to THE WEEKLY STANDARD, is the author most recently of Fred Astaire.
Posted by: CS at October 23, 2008 04:54 AM (wsSLm)
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"People are amazing, and intelligent without a college degree or a fancy job or shared beliefs. That's the whole principle of Academic Freedom. We learn from each other by sharing our diverse ideas. Not by censoring, or dismissing out of hand the ones we think are ignorant."
I agree wholeheartedly.
Posted by: Michele at October 23, 2008 05:52 AM (basue)
Posted by: Amanda at October 23, 2008 07:11 AM (ay+rD)
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sam i so agree. well said. i especially identify with this part...
'I can see some of you squirming. I know you. I went to school with you. I work with you. Hell, I AM you from time to time. I know what I am talking about and there's no denying it. I freely admit to having an occasional elitist moment'
smart chicks rock.
Posted by: kate at October 23, 2008 08:38 AM (Zq135)
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You hit all the points perfectly. All the questions I've been wanting to pose to those who think slogans are enough on which to base a vote (for either candidate). Bravo!
Posted by: Da Goddess at October 23, 2008 10:02 AM (3OqvP)
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This is of course if you want to hear what a liberal Democrat has to say.
You raised a lot of questions here but I only have time to first address Sarah Palin. As for the environment, that can be a longer more scientific discussion given that our education is strikingly similar.
There are two things that are striking of what you say. I certainly think 1) she is smart or she wouldnÂ’t have gotten as far as she has in such a short time and 2) I think the American people and the Democratic party overestimated given her huge flips of positive and negative ratios over time and how strong the Democratic party had to work against her. I donÂ’t think the DNC fears her at allÂ…in fact, I think theyÂ’re salivating over the fact that McCain chose her now (much like I think Republicans did at first when Palin was chosen after Obama did not pick Clinton as a VP).
IÂ’ll tell you why I could never vote for Palin (or McCain for that matter). I donÂ’t agree with her on any issue that matters to me: taxes, healthcare, research funding/earmarks, abortion, affirmative action, gay rights, creationism in school, gun control, and I would say international/foreign policy but I donÂ’t think sheÂ’s clearly formed a stance on that but whatever she has said IÂ’ve disagreed for the most part. Again, itÂ’s not that I think sheÂ’s not smartÂ…but I think sheÂ’s given off the impression that sheÂ’s not smart enough over time.
When she spoke at the RNC, frankly I was pretty blown away. I found her charismatic and strong. I think she made a very telling, positive first impression to the American people. But the dust settled. You had mentioned previously that you didn’t think she should *have* to do the major network interviews. I watched (and still watching the Williams-Pailn interview obviously) every single one of those interviews. There were no “gotcha” questions. There were bad answers. Katie Couric, the queen of “soft news,” did not make her look bad or stupid. Palin did that to herself. And if you think she did well, I really don’t think you’re looking at her objectively anymore. The campaign did a BIG mistake by shielding her from the press because those interviews are scary, stressful, and tough and she needed practice. She floundered. And I feel this is what made the American public turn on her…
HereÂ’s the way I can best describe the letdown of her performance in a nice lab metaphor. Say someone came up to you for a postdoc position in your lab. The person wants to work at your level and in your field but doesnÂ’t have specific training to your projects. But thereÂ’s some serious potentialÂ…say the person was a rising star as a graduate student. Well, definitely in science you give that person a chance. So the person comes to your lab and after a month the person not only canÂ’t do a Western but couldnÂ’t tell you the difference between HRP or AP as a substrate. Or hasnÂ’t successful made their own clones, or still couldnÂ’t troubleshoot a picky PCR reaction. You would reconsider your initial thoughts, IÂ’m sure. You would probably yell at the person to get their shit together. So, you have lab meeting two weeks later. The results are a little better but when you ask the person why the PCR reaction is still having problems and itÂ’s revealed that the person doesnÂ’t understand what Tms are and thatÂ’s why he/she canÂ’t troubleshoot it. At this point, your opinion of the person would be lowered greatlyÂ…hell you might have even kicked the person out of your lab at this point because why should you waste your NIH money on someone who canÂ’t get their shit together. For this geeky metaphor, I think this is what people are feeling. And the VP role is a much bigger deal than a postdoc in a competitive lab.
Frankly, I feel bad for her. ItÂ’s not that she couldnÂ’t have learned the material she needed to know to show understanding and competency, she was just unable to do it in such a short amount of time. Again, itÂ’s not that sheÂ’s not smart, but it now feels that she wasnÂ’t smart enough (in the short time frame).
As for the makeup/clothing thing – first of all, people did JUMP on Edwards for his $400 that he could AFFORD HIMSELF pointing to a potential hypocrisy of trying to be a populist candidate when you spend that much on a haircut. So, don’t think that the MSM is only jumping on Palin for that. And I’m sure Clinton and Obama put money in to present themselves…they should, as should Palin. I think the problem is that when you take GOP donor money to dress yourself up in Ferragamo and walk around as if you’re “Joe-Six-Pack.” Hell, I pay money to the Obama campaign and the DNC and get pissed off with how they spend it. If I donated to the RNC and I found out that 150K was spent on clothing and makeup (not just for her, but for her children) I would be pissed too when you’re down in the polls. I would be pissed that my money went to dress what is now being thought to be the #1 anchor for John McCain’s presidency. Even if I LIKED her, I would be pissed that the money wasn’t spent on, I dunno, OHIO.
As for Troopergate, it wasn’t the scandal itself, but the “coverup.” First there was let’s have transparency and then it was a democratic conspiracy. And I’ve done the Google searches too. She was only found of putting unfair pressure on Monnegan and that’s against Alaskan law. In itself, not a big deal. It was, again, the way she handled it.
It feels from my perspective that she had a promising start and she’s going to at best have a mediocre finish. I will not accept mediocrity (even from own party) for such an important job. But you know, you say it’s the democrats who are scared (which again, all I know is that we’re freaking happy that its become clear that McCain was pandering either to his base or trying to get disgruntled Clinton supporters as opposed to putting “country first” in his pick), I am curious to what you would call Kathleen Parker, George Will, and Christopher Buckley. These are conservative Repubilcans, with long track records, who risked their own party forsaking them while they stood up for their views. What would you say of them?
And I feel I must say this: if you’re going to do that thing where you tie try and tie Bill Ayers to Obama – fine, but then do this. Call out the CONSERVATIVE Annenberg group for putting him on the committee with Obama for EDUCATION, also supported by a Republican governor. It was for a freaking education group and the “relationship” was minimal at best. But if you’re going to go there, then don’t forget McCain and G. Gordon Liddy. McCain has said said he was "proud" of Liddy, and praised Liddy's "adherence to the principles and philosophies that keep our nation great at the beginning of his 2000 campaign. Does that include Watergate then? Does that include his admiration of Hitler? Does that include telling people to kill ATF with head shots? Is it stupid to bring this up because there’s no way John McCain supports any of that ugly shit? Of course it is. Frankly, I am surprised you would lower your argument to this shit. It detracts from other points you could be making.
Posted by: SBC at October 23, 2008 10:03 AM (q1M21)
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I'm unhappy with Palin, because she could be Fred. She could be better than Fred. But she keeps going back to a populist approach. And that's pissing me off. Oh, I'm still going to vote for Palin and McCain. I just wish she'd be the person I want her to be.
(Yes, said with tongue in cheek).
So, I think there are two issues with Palin, for the Democrats, that you sort of hit on.
First, they are elitist. People really think that only people who go to Ivy League schools are smart. Or really smart. Or whatever. And she didn't, and Obama did. Now the same people can't step back and say that Bush is smart -- he must have cheated. Their logic makes no sense. But anyway, the left is credentialist. They will believe anyone with the credentials (Gore with a Nobel) because they don't actually think things out. They appeal to authority (Paul Krugman) instead of reading different sides and making any sense out of it.
Also, people don't understand that there are more than three levels of intelligence.
They see "dumb", "regular" and "smart". Not "smart", "really smart", "super smart" etc. in a nice happy little bell curve distribution with *many* happy standard deviations of smartness. So people who call themselves smart frequently don't understand there are levels of smartness above them. (See: gifted education
They don't understand it either). THey are so used to thinking that when someone doesn't agree with them, it's because they are of lower intelligence. Because, frankly, if you're smart, there are a lot of people stupider than you. But a lot of moderately smart people have been told they're smart, and think that they're pretty much it, and there isn't smart above them. Surprise! There is! Now, I'm not saying Palin is super intelligent or not, I have no idea. I do not doubt she's at least a little smart. But I think a lot of Dems think that anyone they disagree with is stupid.
Posted by: silvermine at October 23, 2008 10:30 AM (qsBMy)
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Ok, someone needs to explain to me the elitist argument to me. Why is it because that if someone excels at academics they are elitist? Are CTG and I elitist because we to Caltech? Why is that Obama, who actually went to Oxy first and then transferred to Columbia, elitist? Is Bush elitist for going to Yale?
And as for Bush "cheating" in Yale...I don't think he cheated at Yale because even at Yale where the average GPA is pretty high he didn't do all that well (which btw, Kerry had a similar GPA to Bush's but guess who was called elitist). So, let me say this loud and clear -- just getting a degree doesn't make you smart (particularly at the Ivy's where they clearly reward the children of alumni). It's how you went about earning it and what you did with it. And that's where a lot of the criticism comes from. Instead of going, holy crap, Obama got into Oxy did well enough to transfer to Columbia and then he got into Harvard Law and was the first African-American to be editor of the Law Review is IMPRESSIVE in an academic sense, I keep on seeing this damn elitist word. This has NOTHING to do with being president -- plenty of smart people shouldn't be president, but why is it that if someone excels academically AND their liberal, they are elitist?
Maybe its that stupid ass arugula comment Obama made a while back. Are you going to CTG elitist because she gets a lot of her food at Trader Joe's?
Is McCain elitist because he wants to make a "commission of the smartest people" to tackle Social Security? My friends, he did not say ordinary people, he did not say Joe-six-packs, he did not say plumbers, he said smartest people. Is he elitist then, or is he just being smart and thinking about what might be best for the country?
When someone points to me when someone is actually being elitist, I will call them on it. Damn right I will. Because I have had people think they are better than me for a variety of reasons, I feel that sting.
But from anything else, how many of the undecided voters, how many of those independent voters, are elitist now because they might go blue? This elitism word is just the new "sexism" and "racism" card on both sides. I'm just tired of it.
Posted by: SBC at October 23, 2008 11:45 AM (q1M21)
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To me, elitist is an attitude that some people have based on their blessings and not being grateful for them. I suspect some people might see you and I as elitist because we went to Caltech, and Obama the same for going to Oxy AND Columbia. But the thing is, and you know it, we're not all like that, but many are. And they look down their nose at people like Sarah Palin, and people who LIKE Sarah Palin, as if the ignorance they perceive is as catching as cooties.
I reject that, and I abhor that. Because it's dismissive. And ignorant.
Posted by: caltechgirl at October 23, 2008 12:07 PM (IfXtw)
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WOW! Good rant. Am I an elitist if I went to Fresno State?
Posted by: Alan at October 24, 2008 03:16 PM (kloCp)
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"People like President Bush, and Sarah Palin, who present themselves to the world as less than uber-intelligent, and succeed ANYWAY, threaten that world view."
I don't think anybody needs to look that hard to see plenty of people in various fields that have suceeded without overt "uber-intelligence" or formal higher education, and they're often actually praised for it. I'd suggest however that many would question actively recruiting somebody stupid to hold the highest political offices of a country.
I'm British, but I'd suggest Sarah Palin (or her British equivalent) would not make it within a mile of 10 Downing Street, not because of elitism, but because of meritocracy. The need to ascend through the parliamentary ranks, and hold ministerial (or shadow) posts means that candidates are tested, and compete before their peers and the country. Those unable to name ANY newspaper, talk in coherent sentences, or demonstrate understanding of fundamental issues of the day just don't cut it. I guess we just expect more of them.
I'm not sure what success you're talking about in the context of GWB. I suspect that he will go down in history as one of the worst Presidents the US has had, and possibly the one that presided over the transition of the US from pre-eminence to also ran.
Good luck on Nov 5th. I hope it's not too painful a day. No doubt you will put "country first" and support whoever wins.......
Posted by: Spectator at October 24, 2008 11:27 PM (cfSni)
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"So how can Bush be as bad as Harding? Or Grant? Van Buren? Buchanan? How 'bout Nixon or Carter, anyone?"
Greatest economic crisis since the great depression, largest national debt in history, largest government in history, response to katrina/ike, two wars, gitmo, spying on Americans before getting proper permission, spying on army staffers having phone sex, cronyism in epic proportions, firing of justice department employees based on political beliefs, loss of standing on the international stage, substandard health care for veterans, excessive no bid contracts, government agents having sex and drugs with oil companies, and I'm sure I can think of many more...
That's more than a couple warts. But of course I am thankful we haven't had another attack on US soil. But there have been plenty of people, including GWB's father, who have managed to protect our soil without sinking our prestige and prosperity too.
Posted by: SBC at October 25, 2008 05:55 PM (JLqd9)
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This is long, but I want to give you a clear picture of what I believe the liberal and moderate response to Obama is, and pose some reasonable questions to your own commentary.
Who do I think Obama is? At root, an inspirational figure at a time when this country dearly needs to believe in itself despite recent failures -- whether those failures are truly our own or were out of our control. Is he as awesome as he tries to seem? No. But he's going to try to be, and he fills out the inspirational role pretty well in my opinion. I'd say the same about JFK and RFK -- not perfect men by any means, but they tried to give us something to look up to and inspire us to be better, in positive ways, and I want that in a leader.
Change? If it means getting more of his campaign money from individuals, then yeah, that's change. Ditto for stomping on corporate execs and businesses earning millions for skinning American wallets and selling jobs down the river -- both things Bush and his Republican Congress turned a blind eye to, despite their talk. Do I think Obama will win all those fights, or even fight relentlessly for them? No. But it'll be an improvement on what I think McCain will do. Obama will go to war if needed, but not without considering and planning for every contingency. He is more likely to catch bin Laden than McCain because by pulling out of Iraq he'll have the forces and funds available, and maybe even develop a few Arab (and European) allies as we go.
Got plenty more, but I'll just move on to this: I don't need my Prez or VP to be approachable to me. Why do you? I want him to kick my ass in chess, then Global Thermonuclear War, and then beat Deep Blue and WOPR with one hand tied behind his back right before he suckers the Russians and the French into agreeing to pay us to store our nuclear waste. I want a charismatic brainiac (emphasis on the latter) that's on my side and will FUCK the next idiot to screw with us, who will take advantage of anyone on my behalf and WIN WIN WIN. I have seen reasons to believe Obama is on my side, and lots of reasons to believe he's fucking brilliant -- for one thing, he BEAT the Clinton machine!
As for elitism, what does he need to do to show you he recognizes his blessings? In his stump speeches, Obama invariably brings up his grandparents and everything they did for him, and emphasizes how in no other country is his life story even possible.
"Thinking they're better than me." Grrr. How is the Republican drumbeat on "heartland values" NOT exactly that? All I ever hear from the Reps is how the "heartland" has such better values, etc than the country's largest cities -- though they are home to our financial engines, our centers of learning, and so much more that it boggles the mind that any politicians can manage to insult millions of Americans time and again. Even if it's indirect ("I was praising them, not insulting you"), it's more blatant and constant than anything the liberal politicians do, that I'm aware of. (Yes, "cling to guns and religion" etc -- but that's not remotely as constant.)
"I know he wears makeup; I can see it on the TV."
Is this a serious concern? Makeup is in the nature of TV -- when McCain skipped out on Letterman for a spot with Katie Couric, Letterman cut to a live feed of McCain getting worked over by the makeup person. It's standard; to not wear makeup is stupid. Even Angelina Jolie looks iffy sans makeup on TV.
On to Palin: If you think the only thing the Dems are bothered by is Palin's preggo daughter and wasteful spending on clothes, I'm simply baffled. Dems don't like her because of her stances on the issues. And if Bill Ayers is an honest issue, I'm a Republican. In this vein, is the Fannie Mae CEO thing an issue? Yes, and I do wish it was covered more in depth. But so are McCain's deregulatory votes and adviser, etc.
Palin's misuse of language, hiding from the press, cronyism in Alaska, etc. I believe Americans want our leaders to be smarter and at least less obvious about hiding their mistakes. And the only people slathering to "get at" her are the comedians -- because she IS a joke. She is an easier target than shooting Quayles in a barrel. Ask Leno. And if you haven't seen her shooting herself in the foot time and again, then you're ignoring what she has had to say. Your defense of Palin seems more relevant to four weeks ago than to today.
"And the paradigm shifts born of ignorance have generally changed our world for the better."
Name two. Maybe I simply don't understand what you're trying to say here, but I'll give you a few counterexamples: Nazi paranoia about Jews; the Red Scare; internment camps for Japanese Americans; the first jackasses that landed in Africa and said, "hey, let's enslave these fuckers, they don't have guns"....
"Sarah Palin and George Bush clearly don't fit the paradigm. And well, we fear that which we do not understand."
I think you misunderstand the concerns many Americans have about Bush and Palin. For one, both act as unreflective "true believers" who refuse to acknowledge mistakes that were and will be made -- and therefore they will keep making them. They avoid the press and dissenting opinions, and hide actions and decision-making that should be public. This is wrong behavior, no matter who is doing it. For another, stupid is as stupid does -- and not anticipating the Sunni-Shia conflict that would erupt after Hussein's removal was STUPID. So many other examples, but that's probably the worst.
"I would also guess that many Obama supporters can NOT." re: knowing platforms and believing crazy shit about their opponents.
I have no idea why you think McCain supporters actually know more about Obama than vice versa. That's not my experience. I've seen a horrifying number of McCain supporters whose grasp of reality and truth is almost as hazy as a terrorist's -- and no American has an excuse for that. Obama is a Muslim? An Arab? I'm not even going to expect so much of these people that they understand it's bullshit to package an entire religion or race as Evil. I just want them to know truth that is so easy to find it's ridiculous.
Maybe the press just covers the conservative crazies and not the liberal nuts. But even members of my own family have shared that unacceptable ignorance. And I've not seen the same level of blindness among Dems; thinking McCain will continue the war indefinitely is the most extreme belief I've seen there, excepting "The Man" conspiracies. Oh, some liberals do seem to think Obama will fix "everything" -- that's silly. As for the Rep hoaxer in Pennsylvania, let's call her a total outlier.
"I figure it this way if Obama wins, no one can ever pull the race card again."
Seriously? So if Obama wins, all the racist fucks I've met in my life will no longer discriminate? We'll never see a black man pulled over for driving while black? A white man can walk without fear through the heart of Compton? No one will see Latinos standing on a corner and treat them like they're illegals? WOW. He IS the Messiah! So glad you pointed this out!!!
That had to be a joke, just as my response to it was a joke as well.
Aaaand I'll just leave this at that rather than go on and on and on even more.
Posted by: Joe C. at October 25, 2008 06:34 PM (JLqd9)
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Whoa, that's quite a rant, and a great one at that! I've said it before -- the gender bigotry and ageism exhibited by the Libs is disgusting and hypocritical.
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Joe, did you seriously read that as "no one will ever be racist again?" that's the opposite of what I meant. What I was trying to say is that no one can ever again claim that the "system" is racist and that people of color are automatically at a disadvantage. How could that argument carry any weight in a US with a Black President?
And really, I think you maybe saw too much of yourself in that, seeing as how you overreacted. I mean the Barry makeup thing was complete hyperbole, simply designed to point out that he has a clothing and makeup budget, too, Just no one ever asks how much he's spending.
Posted by: caltechgirl at October 26, 2008 03:56 PM (IfXtw)
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In Joe's defense, I really could't tell when you're talking in hyperbole in this post and when you're being serious. It's harder obviously when we see text as opposed to talking to you in our living room. When we're in the same room its easier to know when you're making a joke or what you're placing emphasis on. I recalled you making some pretty spirited negative remarks about John Edwards wearing makeup before so even *I* thought you were making comments about the makeup issue (even though I'm pretty sure when you brought it up you were just going on about how much you dislike about Edwards). Clearly you weren't after you explained.
But I would like you to elaborate a little further on what you think "the system" is because I'm feeling that both of you are missing each other's point. I think what you're saying is (and please correct me) that because a man of color reached the highest office of the land the system can't be accused of being racially unfair. If that's the case, I think you're being too broad. There are clearly a few big corporations where CEOs are of color but it is DISPROPORTIONATELY white. Or there are how many female scientists with professor positions but the number of female science professors versus the male counterparts are not close to equal. We BOTH know how sexist science and academia can be despite women having top positions. I think if Obama wins it will help erode racism a lot, but I don't think him being elected will automatically take the race card out of the deck. You mentioned that racism would stop when we stop talking about it. I think people stop talking about when there are different races at every level of society in an approximately proportionate number...not when one is only at the top and bottom.
And I would like to see specific numbers out too on the what the DNC spent for makeup/hair if that matters. It's been noted that nothing on clothes have been spent but makeup and hair has but I haven't heard specific numbers either. I actually think its unfortunate for Palin and a stupid decision by the RNC. Like I said earlier, its not so much that the money was spent as in the context it was spent in, but in the mean time it detracts from real issues and frankly tarnishes Palin's image even more for no reason.
Posted by: SBC at October 26, 2008 06:32 PM (JLqd9)
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Encore! Encore!
Hot Damn Girl! YOU ARE ON FIRE!
Well said. Well said.
Posted by: Lauren at October 27, 2008 04:25 PM (Pt1kf)
A Democrat challenges the MSM
Hugo-award-winning author Orson Scott Card, a lifelong democrat, presents a challenge to the MSM to restore their honor. You've probably seen it everywhere by now, but it is masterful, and bears repeating. I excerpt here the last section of the piece (at length, sorry, but it's worth it), but the whole thing is worth a thorough and thoughtful read.
Is getting people to vote for Barack Obama so important that you will throw away everything that journalism is supposed to stand for?
You might want to remember the way the National Organization of Women threw away their integrity by supporting Bill Clinton despite his well-known pattern of sexual exploitation of powerless women. Who listens to NOW anymore? We know they stand for nothing; they have no principles.
That's where you are right now.
It's not too late. You know that if the situation were reversed, and the truth would damage McCain and help Obama, you would be moving heaven and earth to get the true story out there.
If you want to redeem your honor, you will swallow hard and make a list of all the stories you would print if it were McCain who had been getting money from Fannie Mae, McCain whose campaign had consulted with its discredited former CEO, McCain who had voted against tightening its lending practices.
Then you will print them, even though every one of those true stories will point the finger of blame at the reckless Democratic Party, which put our nation's prosperity at risk so they could feel good about helping the poor, and lay a fair share of the blame at Obama's door.
You will also tell the truth about John McCain: that he tried, as a Senator, to do what it took to prevent this crisis. You will tell the truth about President Bush: that his administration tried more than once to get Congress to regulate lending in a responsible way.
This was a Congress-caused crisis, beginning during the Clinton administration, with Democrats leading the way into the crisis and blocking every effort to get out of it in a timely fashion.
If you at our local daily newspaper continue to let Americans believe --and vote as if -- President Bush and the Republicans caused the crisis, then you are joining in that lie.
If you do not tell the truth about the Democrats -- including Barack Obama -- and do so with the same energy you would use if the miscreants were Republicans -- then you are not journalists by any standard.
You're just the public relations machine of the Democratic Party, and it's time you were all fired and real journalists brought in, so that we can actually have a daily newspaper in our city.
Card's words so eloquently describe my own feelings on the matter, and I also agree with the reasoning behind his choice to vote Republican. He describes his feelings here, from 2006:
There is only one issue in this election that will matter five or ten years from now, and that's the War on Terror.
And the success of the War on Terror now teeters on the fulcrum of this election.
If control of the House passes into Democratic hands, there are enough withdraw-on-a-timetable Democrats in positions of prominence that it will not only seem to be a victory for our enemies, it will be one.
Unfortunately, the opposite is not the case -- if the Republican Party remains in control of both houses of Congress there is no guarantee that the outcome of the present war will be favorable for us or anyone else.
But at least there will be a chance.
I say this as a Democrat, for whom the Republican domination of government threatens many values that I hold to be important to America's role as a light among nations.
But there are no values that matter to me that will not be gravely endangered if we lose this war. And since the Democratic Party seems hellbent on losing it -- and in the most damaging possible way -- I have no choice but to advocate that my party be kept from getting its hands on the reins of national power, until it proves itself once again to be capable of recognizing our core national interests instead of its own temporary partisan advantages.
[...]What really scares me is the 2008 election. The Democratic Party is hopeless -- only clowns seem to be able to rise to prominence there these days, while they boot out the only Democrats serious about keeping America's future safe. But the Republicans are almost equally foolish, trying to find somebody who is farther right than Bush -- somebody who will follow the conservative line far better than the moderate Bush has ever attempted -- and somebody who will "kick butt" in foreign policy.
So if we get one of the leading Democrats as our new President in 2009, we'll be on the road to pusillanimous withdrawal and the resulting chaos in the world.
While if we elect any of the Republicans who are extremist enough to please the Hannity wing of the party, our resulting belligerence will likely provoke Islam into unifying behind one of the tyrants, which is every bit as terrifying an outcome.
I hope somebody emerges in one of the parties, at least, who commits himself or herself to continuing Bush's careful, wise, moderate, and so-far-successful policies in the War on Terror.
Meanwhile, we have this election. You have your vote. For the sake of our children's future -- and for the sake of all good people in the world who don't get to vote in the only election that matters to their future, too -- vote for no Congressional candidate who even hints at withdrawing from Iraq or opposing Bush's leadership in the war. And vote for no candidate who will hand control of the House of Representatives to those who are sworn to undo Bush's restrained but steadfast foreign policy in this time of war.
It applies today.
Card's arguments, though slightly dated, still hold, and represent a thoughtful contemplation of the outcome. Will we be better off finishing the job, or running out on the world like a bunch of pansies? Will that affect our lives here at home? And mainly, who's really calling the shots in each campaign?
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I got this same article in an email and googled Card just to make sure it was real. It is and I'm pleased. Finally someone in the media is speaking up! Woo hoo!
Posted by: Da Goddess at October 23, 2008 10:04 AM (3OqvP)
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He's been speaking up for a while. He represents the old democrats, back when they were sane and less leftist. I'm not sure which party I would identify with if more like him were still around. But, since the Dems have gone completely insane...
Posted by: silvermine at October 23, 2008 10:22 AM (qsBMy)
kill me now - a rant with F words....
If I see one more fucking commercial for another proposition I will rip out my eyes. Particularly that fucking Jamie Lee Curtis Prop 3 commercial. You are SO not conducting those kids, get off it.
And that fucking Gavin Newsom quote anti-Prop 8 commercial on the radio. It's highly effective. I hate him so much I'm thinking of voting yes just to spite him. Says the girl who stood up at the wedding of her(gay)dear friends. Legislating marriage is bad law, and I was thinking of voting yes for that reason, anyway.
And seriously, I notice that it's only the McCain/Palin signs and "Yes on 8" signs that are getting stolen and defaced. I thought it was the LEFT who were supposed to be the peaceful, non-violent, tolerant ones.
yeah, right. Just fucking kill me. Or at least put me in a coma for 14 days.
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I thought it was the LEFT who were supposed to be the peaceful, non-violent, tolerant ones.
Where on earth did you get that idea?
Anyway, don't worry about crap happening in California. California's been a lost cause for decades. Worry that my McCain/Palin yard sign got defaced, too, and I'm in heavily Republican Davidson County, NC.
Posted by: Xrlq at October 21, 2008 08:09 PM (DI4j5)
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glad to see I'm not the only one bordering on psychotic rage over the commercials! I string together such profanity when the commercials come on.
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at October 22, 2008 04:42 AM (0Pi1o)
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My tv is no longer on, I listen to CDs in the car and I skip the election coverage when i read my news. Ughhhh.
Posted by: oddybobo at October 22, 2008 07:01 AM (mZfwW)
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Seen Obama signs get ripped off too, and I recall vividly some rudely damaged Kerry, Gore, and even Clinton signs in the past. Neither party has cornered the market on jackassery.
And I'm very confused -- are you voting yes on Prop 8??? First you said, "Legislating marriage is bad law," which sounds like you're against 8, but then "and I was thinking of voting yes for that reason, anyway," which just confused me.
Posted by: Joe at October 22, 2008 01:52 PM (pKjWO)
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Can I be in a coma too?? that would be sooooo AWESOME! Srsly.
Posted by: Richmond at October 22, 2008 05:55 PM (IJotx)
The Alfred Smith Dinner Roasts
If the whole campaign was just a giant roast, it would be no contest.
And maybe we wouldn't get so tired of election years.....This is frigging hilarious. McCain brought down the house, and Obama was a hoot, too, though he was clearly less comfortable with the comedy.
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Thanks for putting them all together; the only one I've seen so far is the first McCain but now I can watch all four...!
Posted by: pam at October 18, 2008 04:07 AM (l6NIn)
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Good God, McCain was funny... I want to see more of him like that!
I haven't watched Obama yet. ::shrug:: Can't decide if I want to or not...
Posted by: Richmond at October 18, 2008 01:45 PM (IJotx)
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Obologna was okay, but he didn't seem as comfortable as McCain, who nailed it!
Why can't the Maverick put forth that persona more often?
Posted by: That 1 Guy at October 18, 2008 05:35 PM (ZHgID)
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Our entire nation needed a good laugh, and certainly the two candidates did. And now it's time for John McCain to take the gloves off and fight has a** off for what is rightfully his.
More unsolicited endorsement
The laptop arrived TODAY. Ordered yesterday morning. Huzzah for Newegg and UPS, although, seriously, the driver could have hidden the package a bit better, but no harm no foul.
As an aside...
if McCain can't pull this thing out of his ass, it will a hell of a lot of fun to spend the next four years shouting at President Yo Mama. At least until they take away my right of Free Speech.
Happy Birthday, LemonheadsNick and Nora!
It's been an amazing first year for you. I can't believe you're already starting trip #2 around the sun; so big and so independent and such funny little people. Your Mum and Dad are so proud of you and love more than you can ever imagine.
And seriously? Your Mom has such great taste in music.....
Hope you enjoyed your presents and those awesome super cupcakes!
More rollercoaster...
The up: I just checked the bank. Hubby indeed got paid, state budget be damned (first check after summer! YAY!), and he got a really nice raise (this is a "target" year in his contract, so he essentially got a longevity raise plus the new negotiated raise plus COLA).
The down: Property Tax bills came out today. I checked the Assessor's office.... I have until April 10 to come up with $6400! Fuckers. My house is worth 30% less courtesy of the tanked out housing market but we didn't qualify for a reassessment because it was less than a year after we bought the house during the reassessment period.
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http://www.scuba-diving-belize.com/images/photos/blue_hole.jpg
Downside: It's filled with sharks!
Posted by: Bill at October 01, 2008 11:49 AM (bpbQx)
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I rasied hell with our county ASSessor when they came out with this years assesments. They wanted to INCREASE the value of my house! I did managed to get the to reconsider. The bad part is the $50,000 decrease in value, but I'm not looking to sell anytime soon.
Posted by: NAVY CPO at October 01, 2008 12:21 PM (FzhYM)
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sorry honey
I had a reality check when I checked our bank account today.
Can you say "phuqed"?
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at October 01, 2008 03:14 PM (0Pi1o)
It's all so fucked up
The water heater works. That's about it.
Tonight was bad though. We had a fight. A bad fight, the kind where one's parentage and sexual preferences are called into question.
I suppose the fight's over. We were both sorry and apologized. Hell, we were both terribly frustrated by some small carelessness that might lead to another large expense, but I think we can get it fixed tomorrow. At least I think it can be fixed reasonably. If not, well, just add another shitty and expensive bill to the pile.
And now I can't sleep. He's out like a light. I don't blame him, he's had a long hard day. But I just can't shake the anxiety, the grouchyness. I knew I would have trouble sleeping so I self medicated and put on a movie (Ratatouille, actually), but here I am at 20 after 2 AM. Typing.
It's like I'm no longer waiting for the other shoe to drop. Hell, the shoes just keep dropping. So many rotten things have happened over the last few weeks to people I care about, I just want to put my fingers in my ears. And there's more. Lauren has to put down her puppy-boy, and Kate's FIL passed away. And there's more that I can't blog about because I haven't been given permission and it's not out on the interwebs.
Tonight's issue was just another stupid thing in what seems to be a rising tide of stupid things. I am trying so hard to keep my head above water and stay positive because really? I have it pretty good. I have a job I could love, a wonderful home, a sweet and adoring husband that I heap much abuse on undeservedly, and 2 loving, healthy puppies.
I guess I just feel lost. All of these posts are such downers, but that's where I am right now. I'm not sure where I am or what I'm doing. Lately it's just one fucking fire to be put out after another, with no energy left to do anything else.
And now it's 2:30 and I don't feel any better than I did when I started this.
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I hope you got some sleep! Late at night is the worst for anxiety... I know all about that. UGH! Listening to the news sure doesn't help. Hugs, CTG...
Posted by: Marie at October 01, 2008 03:04 AM (UunPp)
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Well, that just sucks, all of it.
When stressed and can't sleep I: pray, read the Bible, try deep relaxation therapy or drink. Hope you get some serious sack time tonight.
Posted by: pam at October 01, 2008 05:04 AM (l6NIn)
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Aw. Hugs from here. Hope things take a turn for better SOON!
Posted by: beth at October 01, 2008 05:36 AM (Slkto)
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I'm so sorry. I hope things get better. I hope the water heater problem turns out to be some little thing that's cheap and easy to fix.
I hope the world stops being broken for people soon.
(Unlike the LOLcat...my give-a-damn is working. All too well sometimes.)
Posted by: ricki at October 01, 2008 05:52 AM (maFNB)
Posted by: Phoenix at October 01, 2008 07:08 AM (FK3xh)
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I feel the same way...lots of bad/sad stuff going on around me, and it's pulling me down too.
drop me a line, we can cry together.
Posted by: Amanda at October 01, 2008 08:37 AM (Sl1Md)
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Sorry about your water heater and your fight. This has been my feeling and my life for a while lately. The head injury, physically is better, the personality change, not so much. Other things going on that make it all the worse, and i just want to scream on top of a moutain - "Fuck the world" and crawl into some flannel jammies and have a beer. Perhaps that is what I will do tonight. flannel jammies and a beer for all my friends having a bad time of it as of late.
Posted by: oddybobo at October 01, 2008 10:30 AM (mZfwW)
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Hey, come by for lunch when you're going down or coming back from lunch. I wonder if you and your DH are having the same arguments that me and my DH have been having. Your post could have easily been on my blog (minus the puppies and the house). We can at least go to Quiznos and bitch (no more CJ on campus). :hugs::
Posted by: SBC at October 01, 2008 12:06 PM (waOvJ)
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Unintentionally I got a book on tape from the library - it's one I've really been wanting to read so I went with it. I listen a little every night at bedtime - puts me right out. May be helpful for those nights when you can't sleep....
Posted by: Carmen at October 02, 2008 12:44 PM (ICKzK)
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I am right there with you. Thanks for mentioning my boy...right now, the prayers are working!!
Thinking of you...
Posted by: Lauren at October 03, 2008 09:54 PM (Pt1kf)
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I just had to comment...I was having an off day, and just typed a search for 'my family is all 'effed' up, and this post came up 2nd or 3rd. I said, 'I know that lady!'...life can be so damn tough sometimes, hunh?
Now I'm off to read some of your more recent posts with fingers crossed that it's better.
Posted by: Mrs. Who at October 09, 2008 04:04 PM (z+bTV)
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Life can be a real bitch at times but you just hang in there girl! We all got shit to deal with, hell i've had so much to deal with these last four years. Just know that you're not alone.
Posted by: ziggyy at October 10, 2008 12:27 PM (7xD2C)
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You know what I typed in my search engine? Why is my life so f****d up? Your site came up and it feels good to talk to somebody who feels the same yet is so impartial. I really hope you sort your problems out really soon. There are
some good people left in the world you know.
Posted by: ziggyy at October 10, 2008 12:37 PM (7xD2C)